Hi ladies
I'm fairly new on here and certainly new to all the peri symptoms. Well I thought I was but looking back it's been going on for ages now. Not necessarily period issues but certainly awful moods, anxiety, aches and pains and feeling very down in the dumps. I've been causing horrible arguments between hubby and me

and I didn't know what was going on with me, and it was only coming on here that it all started to make sense.
I had been spotting on and off for a month (from 28th August) and finally had a bit of a gushy period about a week ago. It was definitely down to not ovulating, which I don't think I have been regularly for a long time - maybe every third month or so if I'm lucky (I'm 47). But bleeds have been fairly regular, if a little closer together and lighter. This last one was the heaviest for a very long time, but only lasted 3 days.
I have read Dr Lee's book on natural progesterone and was a little sceptical. But I got some anyway, just to try and see if I could regulate my bleeding a little. I tried to work out day 10 to start, but it was pretty impossible with spotting on and off. I got it wrong as my heavy bleed came about 3 days after starting the cream

but I carried on with a little bit every day (probably half the amount I should be using) until I've reached Day 5 and then I went for it with a full dose each day. I know it's only been a short time that I've been on it, but I really can't believe how different I feel.
I know my progesterone has been blocked by cortisol or whatever happens as I do suffer anxiety, but looking back I think lack of progesterone has been the culprit of my anxiety! I feel calmer, am a joy to live with (according to hubby) and the awful butterflies of anxiety in my tummy have gone. I've also stopped spotting now (three days without - yay!!) so not sure if that's related. Time will tell.
However, the huge change in me is my bladder! For ages they have thought I've been suffering from interstitial cystitis which doesn't involve having any infection, just a bloody painful urinary system! I was peeing every hour and could be up three to four times in the night. Some days were OK, others were awful. If I ever go to a concert or anything I have to book end of row seats!!
Sorry, this is going on a bit - I'll get to the point in a minute. Anyway, over the past 3-4 days I've noticed I can go into town, get home, nip and sort the horses, come back and still not have have wanted a wee - and that's with drinking normally too. I can go 4-5 hours and still not want to go that badly - that is completely unheard of for me. I can't feel my bladder at all - everything seems very calm and painless. I can't tell you what a difference that makes to me and my life. It has been a standing joke in the family for ages!! Yesterday I went out with my friend for the afternoon and didn't go at all and even when I got home I still wasn't that bothered.
So I suddenly started to put two and two together and googled it (as you do) - "irritable bladder and low progesterone". On
www.womensinternational.com it says "Another hormone imbalance that may be a contributing factor in bladder problems involves adrenalin and its natural counterblance progesterone. An excess of adrenalin may trigger contractions in the bladder muscles, which in turn causes a rise in lactic acid, leading to the pain associated with interstitial cystitis. Some practitioners think it may also be caused by too much adrenaline and that it may be the culprit in overactive bladder too. Progesterone cream applied at bedtime may help reduce the need to urinate and allow for much better sleep."
I'm do have a very stressful job and lots going on at home, so I've been having adrenalin overload for ages now. I'm certain this has contributed to my peri symptoms or peri may have not helped my stress levels - chicken and egg!!!
But that has described what's happened to me exactly. It's far too much of a co-incidence not to be as I've been suffering for about 3 years.
Time will tell of course, but I think I may have found something to help and I wonder if it might help others. Just sharing my experience and not trying to preach!