Thank you for quick replies and such lovely ideas.
I am a bit traditional - having looked at the Beatrix Potter website we are going to get her a boxed set of Jemima Puddleduck crockery from Am***n.
She will need them soon and her brother won't want Jemima ! and as you say we can then buy her the books later on.
The Star and 'letters of a name' book are lovely ideas - i will save them for someone else or another time.
Thanks so much -

Hattie X