Hi Daisie,
I have been on three different AD's at various times, i hated taking them and wonder if that is why i have had such poor results. i have been on fluoxetine which i gave up because i felt spaced out and had terrible night terrors as well as other side effects, citalopram was better and i did improve initially but then gave up when my depression returned. in reflection i think that i should have maybe just gone back to dr and increased dosage instead of just stopping it. 3rd time i was given mertazipine but only took 1 tablet as it totally floored me and i couldnt function let alone go to work.
To answer your question i think that you just have to try them and see if they work. The three i tried may work great for you ? Maybe i expected too much from them ? i dont know but i just felt so low anyway that it was not worth putting up with the side effects.
I wish you well and hope that you find something that suits you .