I haven't tried this one but depending on where you are in menopause, if this is your first foray into the world of HRT, it should regulate your cycle so that you will get a monthly period instead of missing them, and definitely help with some of the symptoms you describe.
The libido is a different issue which may not respond to conventional HRT. Go to the home page of the forum and do a search for sex drive, and libido and you will see several interesting threads!
If you are almost at menopause (very occasional periods) and your oestrogen has dropped a lot, you may well also benefit from local oestrogen, which can help with bladder issues. have a look at the menu on the left under vaginal and bladder problems, and the treatments for these
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/local.phpI hope this helps - and I am sure there will be a Femseven user along at some point!
Hurdity x