The only thing that works for me is to eat lightly in the evening and cut out carbs then too. It works every time.Thing is although I live In Essex I was born in Lancashire and was brought up on stodge, so crave it all the time. Cakes, bread, pies, potatoes, puddings all on my favourites list. I just have to say no after 6pm to them all and stick to salads and very light desserts. I don't count calories I just stick to this - you can do it anywhere, any time even on holiday - just eat the treat foods earlier in the day in moderation.
The loss of progesterone means you need 300 calories a day less after menopause - if you eat the same way you will gain weight slowly - sad but true!