Hi Linsey - we live in a rural area in a smallish town. We have tried to get her to go to day centres but she is not interested. In some bizarre way the brain injury has left her thinking she is 45 and so day centres are for old people. Another irony is whilst she was independent before the brain haemorrhage, she wasn't very well owing to her massively high blood pressure so she didn't really want to go out that much, but when she did she drove herself. Now of course her blood pressure is normal ( she now takes the medication - refused before the brain haem as they made her feel ill - arghhh!) so I think she actually feels quite well now and so is raring to go
which makes it very tiresome for me. I worked in welfare benefits prior to losing my job owing to my health problems so I am pretty sure she is getting everything she should. Pls don't apologise for the questions - thank you for your reply xx
Thanks CLKD - I can't claim carer allowqnce as I am on another benefit linked to my disability . She does watch tv all day if she doesn't go out so that is a blessing. She reads the paper but that's about it . She has no concentration anymore - she was a brilliant knitter but she can't manage anymore - her coordination has been badly affected.
I will check out the age concern website to see if there is anything I am missing.
I took her to town today and she was ok. Today has been a good day . My mood has been ok but I'm not always like this - some days the depression wins and I can't cope with any of it.
Thanks again for your interest ladies. Xx