Hi. I'm Vanessa.
I have taken the plunge today and stuck on my first HRT patch. I have been given Everol Conti.
Previous to this, about five years ago I was given the Mirena coil and I experienced a lot of weight gain with it, around 30lb, all of which came off (with effort) when it was removed early last year.
I am 205lb already and I absolutely dread putting any more weight on. I do more exercise now (running) and have modified my diet since the Mirena and I will keep that up. Everything I read previous to getting the patch said HRT was unlikely to make me gain weight, but weight gain is listed as a common side effect of the HRT on the leaflet.
Like so many of you I also have what I think are hormone related migraines and I have hot flushes and broken sleep. I have been coping so far but it has been difficult, as has the irrational crying at kittens and songs from the 70's

I have had a blood hormone test at the doctors to confirm the menopause, as if I didn't know

I guess I would like to hear what you think about the weight gain as users of this forum have actual experience. The good thing about the patches is that I can change them or stop them, with the Mirena it was very difficult to get it removed.
Thank you in advance, I will post my experience with the patch and I look forward to your advice x