Hello & welcome.
I'm only on oestrogen, but found higher doses gave me palpitations. Amitriptyline was prescribed for my sleep problems a number of years ago. It was waking with a dry mouth that I hated. Would need to drink water during the night, then would waken needing the loo. Defeated the purpose of them really. Kalms, Rescue Remedy don't do it for me either.
I'm currently using 1000mg starflower capsules as I'm trying to come off my patches, however, not completely convinced they have made much difference. I will persevere though.