Meno speeds up the aging process for sure, the two are so entwined, difficult to work out what's what - even more so if you have an early meno.
If I didn't suffering so badly with the progesterone intolerance issues I wouldn't always be pondering coming off (my system rejects any prog, almost as if toxic).
What is troubling (and bugs me when I read articles or hear women saying they're "through" meno) is:- post-menopause follows menopause and lasts the rest of your life, loss of estrogen is forever and for some, severe symptoms can go on indefinitely. Ugh. What a thought.
It's as if your life is divided into two halves and you yearn for the pre-meno self. As discussed on here many times, in past times life expectancy was much shorter.
What will intrigue me forever is the huge variance in how, without estrogen, our bodies adjust or don't adjust, as the case may be.
I also feel a shadow of my former self, when I look at photos of 3 years ago, good grief how I've aged and changed so much in all ways. So true, Mother Nature has no reason to keep us looking good and takes away the libido too - why on earth would you need that now she says!
Lately I've been thinking that maybe ADs do have a role to play (as serotonin levels are naturally lower post meno) - in getting through the rest of post meno life, in coping with living in such a different body, in coping with the loss of self, the acceptance of the loss of self, the disintegration, the loss of control, the loss of brain function, the different woman who you see in the mirror, the stringy hair, vag and bladder problems, the loss of dignity, etc etc - all while trying to work and coping with life's other problems - agree HRT only partially (and minimally in my case, as I've tried all types, high to low) solves symptoms.
Sorry if this is a bit depressing, just saying how it is for me personally (we're all different).
Night_Owl
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