Hi Maggies
Sorry to hear you are still feeling tired and anxious - what type and dose of Femoston are you on? Can you link any particular episodes of tiredness and anxiety to your cycle and the particular section of HRT you are on ( eg the combi pills, or just before your bleed etc)?
It does sound like you have a lot of stress in your life which is not helped by the menopause. Are you able to get out and take exercise regularly and do you eat a healthy diet?
Do you get time for just you so that you can relax? Very important if you can....
Have you had any tests eg re iron, thyroid, blood sugar all of which can lead to tiredness (low iron, too little thyroid hormone, high blood sugar - borderline diabetes), as well as being low on some vitamins. If your diet is very good then vitamin and mineral deficiencies are very unlikely, but worth having the standard blood tests just to get checked out, and eliminate other possibilities.
Hurdity