Thanks for the replies everyone

you are probably right Milliemoo, why do I feel I have to give up

I think I am just scared of jumping around too much and making it worse

but your question has got me thinking

I now know I have had this for a long time, as I could not use tampons after birth of my last child, although I had never realised all this time why it was. It is only now it has come to my attention at menopause age, so obviously I have been well jumping around all those years without any problem as such... so may be I should ignore my fears and go back to zumba and give it a whirl again... just take the moves lower until I know how I feel about it... sometimes a bit of knowledge definitely feels like a dangerous thing...

certainly don't want to give up on enjoying things because I now know about something that I didn't realise I had for 20+ years

daft isn't it when you put it like that

thanks for helping me put it in perspective
