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[spider]

Sooooo glad I've read this post...now I don't feel like its me.

Trying to pull yourself together all the blinking time is awfully hard...especially when OH is losing the will to live listening to me 

[Tingly]

Luckystone n honeybun
Sorry i didnt mean to hijack the original post , i was just being totally honest.
I  too believe though deep down that all things must pass, it was just cos i couldnt get rid of the pain iwas in and i was losing hope

Thankyou for your beautiful and thoughtful responses, and if i do ever feel like this again, i shall remember this day, this time when i do feel ok and happy, and know that imay feel like this again.
And again sorry to honeybun for inadvertantly hijacking

Best luv to all
Tingly
Xxx

[honeybun]

You hijack all you want.

That's the beauty of the forum. The topics start and weave and wander and then come back to the original point.


Honeyb
X

[CLKD]

Spider : "especially when OH is losing the will to live listening to me . "  your viewpoint or has he said so?

[Lucky Stone]

Glad you are feeling better tingly -  - all things do pass although sometimes it seems they take flaming ages to do so.

[spider]

CLKD

my opinion of how OH feels! But his face says it all at times...

[CLKD]

Why not ask ?  Maybe his face is to do with his own thought patterns, maybe he has problems that he is keeping to himself.

The lack of communication is the most common reason for relationship breakdown!  You could begin by saying "You look a bit down in the dumps, anything you need to share with me or our GP/friends " ......... "I know I've been low too hopefully my mood isn't impacting on your feeings?"  He is NOT a mind reader and you are not in his head so unless you ask the question   

I need to open my drawer of Fixed Grins 

[spider]

Had a chat....he's worried about me!

Mind reader he is NOT...you were right CLKD

Hormones obviously impact on your mental capacity also....why can't I seem to think straight these days...

[lily]

Good topic HB.  I agree with most of these posts and I think it depends what kind of closeness you share or don't share with different people so we do have different faces for different people in our lives.  I'm beginning to get more anxious with peri-meno but the only person I really tell everything to is my OH and the other day he said I was hard work    I just don't think they can understand or they don't want to hear about it all the time and it does make me feel worse if I go on a lot, so I'm going to put a face on even for myself to try to move through this bleakness that has suddenly descended.  Thinking too much is not good for me, but as everyone else has said, I know I'm not alone in these thoughts and this will come to pass at some point.

[CLKD]

Spider - now you know!

Home now - grins back in the drawer