Ann, heres a handy list of things you might need:
Electric toothbrush and tube toothpaste- you wont be able to operate a push type.- practice prior to the op.
Flannels- so useful for washing your face and soothing to put over your shoulder in the bath.
A long handled brush for your back when youre in the shower.
A jug whilst in the bath- lovely to trickle water over the shoulder and pour over your armpit area.
A 'wheatie'- those things you pop into the microwave, can be comforting.
Nice bubble bath- make it a treat!
A hot air brush dryer- just in case your other half is as incompetent as mine at hair styling!!!!!!!
Pajama sets- baggy bottoms and a short sleeved t shirt/ vest type top- ASDA sell them. They were really handy and it doesnt feel like youre in your bed time attire all the time!
Big knicks! Pads if you still have periods.Wet loo paper (Andrex)
Moisturising cream for your hands- your skin can dry out.
Spare pillows so you can pop one on your lap as you mustnt put any strain on your arm.
I found having a 'cape' to wear outside so useful. Its awkward to put your arm into sleeves at first so its handy at this time of year. I got mine from Matalan, cost me £10.00- I have used this so much- even if its not your style you have to adapt in the short term.
Shoes with zips or pull ons- you wont be able to tie your laces and i get on my kids nerves by asking them to tie them for me!!! Pay back time?
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Painkillers ready, take them if you need to, you may not, but dont be a hero- if it hurts take them.
Slings come in small medium and large, I have a large as I have really long arms, it as the most comfy. Ask the hospital staff their advice.
When you come round you will find that you will have lots of dressings over the would, dont panic! Its to soak up any fluid they used in the keyhole stuff, the dresings come off shortly after. You'll go home with small dressings on and your sling.
Let the family fuss over you, play act for a while, milk it, pay back time.
The main thing is to think about what youre doing and plan what you need first- lay them out, put them ready.
It was so much easier than I thought!!!!!
Physio starts tomorrow so I'll keep you posted. Dont be frightened, the anaesthetic was great- had a funky dream about brightly coloured flowers!!!!! Woke up feeling like I'd been to the best party ever!!!!!!
Keep me posted.