Hey Kes
Sorry to see you go so soon? Maybe you were hoping for a reply sooner. Sometimes posts do get missed and it's August so members are often away like I've been.
If you are reading this do consider re-joining as there is a lot of help and support on here! I am replying in case you are continuing to read the message boards.
I can imagine it must be a shock to be told you are peri-menopausal at 40. I presume there must have been a reason for this - for example having irregular periods as well as flushes and sweats. If your oestrogen levels are declining it is very important to take HRT to protect your bones at least until the natural age of menopause ie 52-ish.
There are different side effects of different types of HRT - but women seem to have most problems with the progestogen component of HRT, especially the synthetic progestins. It doesn't sound as though you have got to this point yet though? If your body has low oestrogen levels then it will take a while to readjust - and maybe you took too much too soon?
You didn't say which dose of Elleste you were given but tablets can give daily surges in hormone levels, and have to go through the liver too. Personally I would recommend patches as these provide a steadier dose of oestrogen directly into the body.
Good luck with your visit to the doctor and if you feel like re-joining to tell us how you get on then you would be very welcome! Hope you manage to enjoy your holiday.
Hurdity x