Hi
Sorry to hear you are feeling rough but unfortunately it is normal. Like you I had been going through it for about 12-18 months before a visit to my GP, things got so bad that I thought I didn't love my man anymore and eventually we split up! It didn't change how I was feeling, my depression and anxiety got really bad and I had a breakdown. Eventually I accepted it could be the menopause and visited my GP, it was confirmed by blood and urine tests, I opted for HRT as I was only jus 44 at the time, I'm still not 100% but I don't get any flushes, I sleep better and my partner and I got back together 14 months ago and are better that we have ever been. HRT is a massive decision and it can take a while to stabilise on it, like I say I'm not 100% yet but I'm definitely getting there. If you research HRT you will see the benefits far out weigh negatives and statistics are all listed too, I know it can increase occurrences of some things but it also gives protection against others. Ultimately it is your decision what you do but I wish you luck in whatever you choose.
Shellb
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