Hi honeybun
Just seen this thread and just want to offer my support.
I have never taken citalopram but I've been taking fluoxetine (Prozac) for 9 years for OCD.
I was prescribed Mirtazapine a couple of months ago when I was having terrible anxiety.
My GP didn't want to up my HRT because I am on a high dose and she wanted to sort out the anxiety as that is my worst meno symptom.
After a week on Mirtazapine I started to notice an improvement.
They made me feel calm and gave me a good nights sleep.
In 3 weeks I was feeling really good.
I found that the AD worked instantly on my anxiety.
I take 15mg at night and am feeling normal again.
Have a chat with your GP on other ADs.
Mirtazapine worked for me and it could work for you.
I know we are all different and react differently to medications.
Please keep us informed on how you are doing.

Dyan X