I have known this person for nearly ten years and at times I haven't agreed with some things she has said and done and likewise I guess she has felt the same about me. About three years ago she had an acrimonious split from her fiancé and every single day she would call or text me for over 12 months about the trials and tribulations and I was always there for her.
Then she seems to show a part of her I didn't like, crying to me how broke she was living in a £400'000 house, and could not afford it. I suggested she sought a lawyer to help with the legal stuff, I offered her money to help her. Next day she called to say she had bought some fab art work stuck it on credit card and cost £300. A few weeks later she bought a dog for £2000 I was utterly gob smacked. On and on it went thankfully she didn't take my money.
She met a guy online who turned out to be very wealthy and just when I thought she could not get any more shallow and flaunt his wealth not hers mind, it got for me worse. The holidays he took her on like Dubai for weekends, Italy, Monaco Grand Prix, all the gifts he bought her and all designer but curses that she gets little salary. When she posts on Facebook its a case of the designer and the price I find it all rather ugly. About 7 months ago she called to say as the new baby was taking up too much room in the car they were goi g car shopping for a family car, which turns out to be a Bently Continental, I laughed out loud as I said that's NOT a typical family car now is it? She gifted her dog to her mum as it messed the house, then one month later bought another £2k dog which she "loved" until it turned an odd colour and she then went and bought another dog which she preferred the co,our of for £2.5k and tried to off load the "loved one" my way
I was disgusted more so about the dog bit, and since I've been I'll, I have hardly heard a thing from her, the odd text to ask "how r u" to then ignore my reply and tell me about her latest gift and next holiday and how much it is
Today i finally had enough she posted a picture of his and hers Bentley cars on her driveway or rather his driveway and I wonder was she really ever a friend. I have had no card, or phone call, a couple of texts and that's it. I am very disappointed to see how someone does seem to value things in a different way to me and not for the better
I've been so ill, I would hope she would at least visit but no, nothing, I'm quite sad about it