Hi Liz,
I always apply the patch before I go for a shower. I think you're right about the shower gel leaving a residue on the skin.
I've been on the Fem 7 for nearly 12 months and am doing great now
When I first came on this site I was desperate: I had started to suffer with awful night sweats, endless extreme hot flushes, joint pains, crashing fatigue constipation, IBS, acid reflux to name but a few on the list!! All of these things had "bubbled gently" in the background on and off for a long time (from my late thirties - I'm now 44) and then my periods went haywire and eventually stopped for a few months and that's when the whatsit really hit the fan and I just could not cope anymore. The night sweats woke me up every single night and I was totally sleep-deprived. I remember going on holiday pre-HRT and I was so exhausted I spent most of my time asleep - like a heavily sedated dormouse!
I went to the GP and had some tests at the hospital etc etc and then went onto the Fem7. I haven't looked back! I felt a massive difference within the first week: the flushes and sweats stopped and things gradually picked up from there. Over time, my energy has increased (I can stay up at night past 8pm now, ha!), the muscle and joints pains have gone, all symptoms either gone or settled down, and my sense of humour has come back.
I have a dog now and am out every day walking with her. When things started to pick up, I went through a stage of re-evaluating my life and life in general. To cut a long story short, I resigned from a job I had come to loathe and in the true spirit of cosmic doors closing and opening, I gained a University Scholarship! I'm very happy to be a student again!
I had a couple of issues in the beginning of the HRT such as a short spell of extreme tenderness in my breasts that eased off after a few days and has not troubled me since. My periods started up again, but they are regular now instead of being all over the place. I think there may have been a couple of other issues, but so minor I can't even recall what they were!
I used to talk about symptoms of Peri all the time as it seemed like every day brought something else weird and not-so-wonderful and that put me into a kind of mindset of expecting bad things to happen - like walking on a train track and feeling the rumbling of something coming. Now I'm on a different track...I'm driving the train!! LoL
Hope all goes well with your treatment,
Best Wishes,
Jo