I have read these posts with interest.
In the late 80's I trained to be a psychiatric nurse I saw some terrible cases of people dosed up on tablets unable to function and it did impact on my attitude towards anti depressants (of course they werent all on anti depressants) I left the course after 2 years and didnt complete my training it was just not for me and i have never regretted that decision as i made many friends who i still am close to today and met my husband through one of them.
Back to the point, when the peri meno hit me like a ton of bricks a year ago i was convinced i was loosing my mind and myself with it, my gp was keen for me to try AD's but i refused after weeks of sitting in the house in the dark crying all day she practically begged me to take them, she said she had patients in the surgery who asked for Ad's and didnt need them but i obviously did, I told her about my experience as a trainee nurse and she did understand where i was coming from and discussed with me how medications had progressed over the years.
I think, as i assume most of us are, that people in their fortoes and older still hold a massive stigma towards taking tablets for depression, i was brought up to beleive you were weak or incapable if you had to take medication for mental health. It is a hard barrier to overcome.
All i can say is if i had not took my gp's advice and took the Ad's which i have now been on for a year i don not know if i would still be sitting here crying in the dark. I intend with my gp's support to stay on them right through the menopause,they have saved my life and my sanity.
I would say to anyone forget the stigma things have moved on massively and they eally can make a difference to your life. They dont suit everyone but unless you try you wont know. xxx