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casakelsey

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menopause
« on: October 08, 2015, 01:56:29 PM »

Hi everyone I would just like to introduce myself I'm 57 years young & I started with the symptoms of the Menopause at the age of 50.

Perimenopause was bad enough from mid 40's I guess but since hitting 50 wow I'm a physical & mental wreck.

This forum & website is like having all my birthdays & Christmases all at once. I started reading it & I feel like a huge weight has been lifted their are so many posts that I find myself shouting thats me!!!!!!

Menopause is such a lonely place & the help & support on this forum is staggering I can't stop reading it so to all you lovely people thank you, you may just have saved my life.

 Casakelsey xx
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SadLynda

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Re: menopause
« Reply #1 on: October 08, 2015, 02:19:26 PM »

Hello Casakelsey  :welcomemm:

I remember that feeling when I found the forum too, I was in bits at the time not knowing were to turn.  I have only been here a few months and feel like an expert on the subject now.

Its great we can discuss everything here.  Amazes me that even in this day it seems to be a very taboo subject out there.
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Hurdity

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Re: menopause
« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2015, 03:20:48 PM »

Hi casakelsey

 :welcomemm: from me too!

I agree this website is brilliant and the forum too!

What are the symptoms that are bothering you the most and what have you been doing to try to alleviate them over the past few years?

I agree menopause can be a lonely place although once you get older it becomes easier to mention it to other similar aged women I find! Not men though!!

Hope you find plenty of support on here  :)

Hurdity x
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Joyce

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Re: menopause
« Reply #3 on: October 08, 2015, 06:20:03 PM »

 :welcomemm:

My GP told me about this website nerly 6 years ago & I've been here ever since. It's helped me heaps!
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casakelsey

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Re: menopause
« Reply #4 on: October 09, 2015, 05:59:01 AM »

Thank you for your welcome messages.

I have joint & muscle aches which are so bad on waking up especially my feet & ankles.

For the last 7 years all sorts of things have gone wrong with me, I had an op for a prolapse bowel in 2011 & then in 2013 I had sciatica caused by a prolapsed disc in my back this resulted in me being practically bedridden for a year!!!! I couldn't walk more than 20 meters the pain was indescibable. They operated in Nov 2014 to remove part of the offending disc, the bit that was sat on the top of my sciatic nerve root.

Since then I have had tried to get back to fitness but still get some sciatic pain in my bum & leg but also have pains in my neck, elbows, wrists, knee's & ankles.

I suffer at least 1 sometimes 2 migraines a week. I have been to gp several times but he doesn't advise HRT. He said that I have to expect aches & pains at my age!!!!!!!!

I have tried isoflavone, sage , menopace as well as pilates & swimming but I ache even more after these activity's & none of the supplements seemed to work. My hot flushes are constant day & night.

I was put on antidepressants for terrible anxiety but after 2 years I felt whats the point they didn't seem to help much either so I have recently come off of them.

I stil take a multivitamin, glucosamine & magnesium.

I feel tired & fatigue all the time & also desperate. I have always been fit & active I'm not overweight,  don't smoke & have a drink maybe Birthdays & Christmas but not always as alcohol seems to trigger my migraine.

 Sorry this is such a long post, I also had a call from my 32 year old daughter yesterday telling me that she has breast cancer, I really don't think I could feel any worse at the moment.

Casakelsey xx
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Kathleen

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Re: menopause
« Reply #5 on: October 09, 2015, 08:22:39 AM »

Hello casakelsey and welcome to the forum.

So much of what you describe is familiar to me and will be to many ladies on this site. You are not alone in your struggles!

I am sorry to read about your daughter's illness and I wish you both well.

Take care and keep posting, you will receive a lot of support from the ladies here!

K.


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SadLynda

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Re: menopause
« Reply #6 on: October 09, 2015, 10:59:31 AM »

sorry about the news from your daughter.

The others are sat waiting for this so I wont disappoint them ;)

Sciatica can be helped by acupuncture, (so can everything else but nobody believes it) if you can find a specialist who is traditionally trained (not nhs) they will help you with that for sure, many people agree with that one.

I see my acupuncture guy weekly at the moment and he is helping me with most things, I do yoga too.  I saw him first for sciatica, as a dog walker that was not the best thing for me to be suffering with, 3 sessions and I have not looked back.
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