I have suggested that she gets someone else to do for her. Her answer to that one was to take to her bed and refuse to speak to anyone. If me or sis spoke she pulled the covers over her head. It was awful and I was backed into a corner. What can I do.....She treats me like #### but does not want anyone else.
Sometimes, although rarely she is really nice....most of the time she is a discontented old woman who hates the world.
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I think we're heading in the same direction our end Honeybun!
Have just come off phone to my Mum. She's been to GP today and hubby and I are convinced she actually WANTS something to be wrong with her. She asked the doctor if the hospital notes said anything about her kidney.
When she went for every test known to man (the other week when she said she couldn't see) the Professor said everything was normal, her kidney reading was slightly raised but it was
nothing to worry about and would see her for another 12 years (she told him she wants to get to 100). I heard those words myself.
She also thinks the doctor is not bothered about her because she's not sending her for back X-rays.
Then she says could we put our mid-week break off because "people" had said it might not be good for her. On questioning she said it was the doctor and a lady who brought her lunch today. I actually think it's more than likely the brothers.
I said, I can't cancel now because I've paid in full (her birthday present) and she will be staying in a double glazed, fully central heated luxury park home/villa thing. It is just an hour in the car. She can knit, watch TV, I've hired a wheelchair if she wants to go on the prom and she won't have to lift a finger for 5 days. If she's at home she has to cook, tidy up, etc. If she's with me she's treated like the Queen. I said it's up to her, me and DD will still go without her. Then she says "I suppose the days will soon pass and we'll be home again. I might as well pack then." I said "no, no, think it over and I'll ring you tomorrow."
I tell you what I don't know why I bother sometimes and hubby says I am a saint.