Sarai I know how you feel I really do. I am 55 and still in the throws of all this. My last period was December, but I feel like I am going to start any day, had a very slight stain yesterday - dark yellow , chest is sore, and I feel hormonal but no real bleed yet. My pattern seems to be that it takes ages and ages to start a period, and they are often proceeded by spotting before they really get going. Have you or anyone else had that?