The only way is to have a trial on HRT again Galadriel, my main symptom with menopause was sleeping problems, and adrenal surges from sudden noise when in in bed. not had sweats or hot flushes.
Estrogen excites and progesterone calms the nervous system, I can't say for sure if being on my estrogen patch helped all that much , I have had periods of not sleeping well on and off the patch.
An over anxious brain (brain chatter) seems to be at the crux of it for me anyway.
I did go through the achy popping joints and muscles, they did subside eventually only to crop up again a few years ago (have posted about in on MM) but a few months ago it all stopped suddenly, no aches no joint pains, wrist pain gone, I am completely pain and ache free and I have not a clue why, I have thought is it that supplement or that one I am taking? or the cooler weather, just don't know. The only thing different is that I am not on my estrogen patch.
Still have sleeping problems though sometimes, who knows what the answer is.