Hi Eileen, I have numbness in my fingers and my GP is testing me for B vitamins and iron. It was two months yesterday since I last felt the thumb half of my right hand, anyway I had the blood test and we'll get the results in due course.
I don't have any stiffness in my hand joints but I have had arthritis confirmed in my hands for over ten years, it causes intense pain, but I don't think it's causing the numbness.
Bisopralol might help the palpatations and anxiety? That's what I was given, plus prozac, I was 50 at the time and didn't know any details about menopause or that those are top symptoms. Neither, it seems, did my GP or I might have tried HRT back then.
What about tweaking your HRT? You say it's not working, I'd call that a success, lol, HRT half killed me at any dose, so "not working" is a good start, it's not horrendous, can you increase it until it is working? Will your GP take a call on HRT? I know so many are emergencies only, which I find horrible, that forces patients to triage themselves and menopause is rarely an emergency

PS the GP also told me to go get physio, see if it's a trapped nerve that might release.