Sorry you feel this way, but I understand: My Hubby suffers with depression, quite severe at times, this sometimes gets me down too, as he was always such a happy, full of life type of person. Also our Daughter (who we adopted aged 7) has met a partner,& had a little girl , but as he doesn't like us, has stopped all contact. This has left us both,( but me more) devastated. We last saw them nearly 4 years ago now. We've tried to make contact, sent birthday/ Christmas cards & letters, but to no avail. Its hers & her daughters Birthdays coming up, & I'm in a dilemma whether or not to still send cards ?? My Hubby thinks we should just let things go & let her get on with her life, but I don't know what to do .I just feel so sad all the time.