OK, have decided today after long session with psychiatrist yesterday that despite extreme reactions to anti-depressants in the past I'm going to give mirtazapine a go. The psychiatrist felt that my emotional state is a result of a complex mixture of factors - breast cancer and the effects of chemo on the brain, coping with two teenagers with mental health needs as a single parent, lack of family support, precarious financial situation, and then the added blow of sudden menopause when I'm clearly very sensitive to hormonal changes. So far nothing we've tried on the HRT front has really helped - I'm going steadily downhill, with the odd good day thrown in here and there. I've got to the point where I can barely go out on my own, and I've stopped doing all the things I used to enjoy. Life feels utterly pointless.
But I know from experience that those initial two weeks, when they tell you things might get worse, get a hell of a lot worse for me. And I've never made it past about 5 days so I have no idea if they'll actually work. Feeling scared but also like I have no choice, I simply can't carry on like this, otherwise I might as well put an end to it now. I have a feeling I'm going to need a lot of support over the next few weeks...x