I think that you would be anxious even without the background gh - until the baby arrives you are in limbo. It's going to be a Long Night!
As for Counselling - talking therapy helped me. Discuss, decide, ditch - I went intermittently in the 1990s for 2 years. One therapist on the NHS admitted after 2 hours that I knew more about anxiety than she did
- I had to wait 18 months for that and then had a letter from the NHS asking if I still required sessions.
Privately was OK initially but eventually I could tell that the Psychologist was getting fed up as she arrived later and cut the sessions shorter; eventually telling me about another patient with problems [not by name] - I told her that I wasn't interested in other people, that I was here to ease my problems - I walked out and never went back.
At least it enabled me to get my problems into the open. When ever I had mentioned happenings with friends/family I was told "that couldn't happen to you, your parents are X, Y, Z .... " . At least after moving from that area I saw strangers who were a) being paid to listen, b) didn't know my family history and c) couldn't make any suggestions, it was done on a you talk, I'll listen, I'll give you homework
yeah, right.