Thanks very much M, K and H. I have stuck with patches for 2nd term. Will give one more month. Looking back, as I do regularly to find the answer of what went wrong, I was ok while on hol,in July without the hrt and felt bad when I resumed it immediately on my return, so perhaps my body does not agree with hrt and if I had other health problems it would not be an option anyway, so I am still not convinced about hrt for me for various reasons tbh.
Have been to a Homeopath and awaiting my remedy so prayers and fingers crossed ladies. Will keep you posted.
