Your feelings are in response to your thoughts. Fear of the future? Fear of pain? Fear of dying? It is easier when you have no choice, then you are swept along by events and just have to get through it. Having a choice, particularly as you are feeling relatively ok at the moment, is so difficult. Do you discuss how you feel with your husband? What are his thoughts? Does he come to appointments with you, so he has the full picture and has the opportunity to ask his own questions? I know he can't make the decision for you, but he might be able to allay periphery fears. Ju Ju xx