Hi weejeannie, I know exactly how you feel, I had a slight bleed after 18 momnths of no periods, and I too wasn't worried, as I had all the right symptoms, cramps, feeling low etc..it was only when I spoke to my GP, everyone nagging me, that I felt the fear of God was put into me! I has copious scans, and all was fine, they said it was probably vaginal atrophy, and post menopause "wierdness"! Just after that incident, I had a ton of other symptoms, so it seemed to be the green light for full on menopause!
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MINNIE XX