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Title: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Pennyfarthing on February 04, 2020, 07:23:39 PM
MP Tracy Brabin has hit back at people who have had a go at her online about wearing a black off the shoulder dress at work in the Commons.  Some of the comments weren't nice at all but I think most people were shocked because she looked so unprofessional.

I am really surprised she thought she was acceptably dressed. She looks to me like she has just come back from a Hen party or a night on the town. 

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Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 04, 2020, 07:36:06 PM
I agree.  I wouldn't trust any professional who doesn't dress appropriately for the work place.  We would have been sent home!
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Pennyfarthing on February 05, 2020, 08:44:50 AM
I was working in a social work office a few years back and the manager there had to have a quiet word with one of the females who everyone felt was dressing inappropriately. I'm all for people being able to choose how they dress but when it starts to make colleagues feel uncomfortable ... ::)

ha ha that reminds me of a woman at our village school who was employed as a Lunchtime Supervisor.  After a few weeks in her job she started coming to school in very short mini dresses which you could see through and it was clear that she was wearing just a thong underneath.  You literally could see the cheeks of her backside .... plus the thong up the middle!  There were so many complaints that the Headteacher had to insist she dressed appropriately.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Two hoots on February 05, 2020, 09:26:52 AM
If you are speaking about something you care about surely you don't want what you are wearing to distract ? She has been trying to justify her outfit but I think she's missing the point. She said if a man was wearing a coloured tie would he have the same comments, no, but if his shirt was unbuttoned showing his chest yes I think he would have had the same reaction.

Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 05, 2020, 09:34:50 AM
Well said Two hoots.   There is a dress code in many Companies.  The issue at the moment is tattoos  ::) ........ and if they should be on show/not.

Surely one has to respect the business one is working in?  Is she trying to 'make a point'?  Where's the Speaker, could he/she not have had a word ..........
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Pennyfarthing on February 05, 2020, 03:30:01 PM
Well said Two hoots.   There is a dress code in many Companies.  The issue at the moment is tattoos  ::) ........ and if they should be on show/not.

Surely one has to respect the business one is working in?  Is she trying to 'make a point'?  Where's the Speaker, could he/she not have had a word ..........

My niece has the most huge, hideous tattoos all down her arms and legs.  Think Amy Winehouse ..... brightly coloured hearts, anchors, sailors, lovebirds etc!   She is a teacher and has to have them covered at all times.  Easy enough with the legs as she can wear leggings or trousers but keeping her arms covered in the hot weather is another thing!  it's her own fault though as she chose to have them.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 05, 2020, 03:58:03 PM
DH said 'at least the MP wasn't naked'  :sigh:   4 me any point that she might be trying to put across wouldn't make an impact, I wouldn't trust anyone who can't dress appropriately.

How would 1 feel if a surgeon arrived at the bed-side with a hoop in the nose and tattoos  :-\
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 05, 2020, 08:13:01 PM
Nor had I but then I don't remember who might be in or out these days  ::)

With the traditions attached to our Governmental system, she should have more respect!
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: GypsyRoseLee on February 05, 2020, 08:25:51 PM
I think she deliberately wore the dress knowing the media coverage it would generate. Presumably she wants to raise her profile for some reason?

Highly unprofessional.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 07, 2020, 03:19:34 PM
Did I see that this particular dress is up for sale?
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Sparrow on February 08, 2020, 03:05:45 PM
The dress has just made ?12,000 at a charity auction.

Good for her I say.  Perhaps Boris could auction his hair or Moggy his tophat.  ;D
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Pennyfarthing on February 08, 2020, 03:14:08 PM
The dress has just made ?12,000 at a charity auction.

Good for her I say.  Perhaps Boris could auction his hair or Moggy his tophat.  ;D

Who in their right mind would pay ?12,000 for that dress?  It just looked like a chain store plain black dress ..... off the shoulder admittedly! 😂😂
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Sparrow on February 08, 2020, 03:19:11 PM
Who cares, it's charities gain.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 08, 2020, 06:42:42 PM
Will the Charity gain?   How many Charities are franchised, more than we realise.  We've had discussions with Age Concern recently ..... unless money is paid into a particular shop they don't get it.  If it goes to HQ then it goes they know not where.  Yet.

They have to almost beg to get support from HQ.  It was the same with Cats Protection: the branch that I worked for got ?250.00 per year, had to beg for monies to maintain kennels, buy litter trays and food ........ otherwise they had to be self funding  :'(.  What people don't realise is that any can shakers have to in many cases, give up the donations to HQ.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Sparrow on February 08, 2020, 06:54:38 PM
I think it was the Girl Guides, or what ever they are called now.  Don't think that's a franchise.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 08, 2020, 06:55:49 PM
It will go to HQ though? Unless it's a Group local to her so that she can hand over a cheque?  A lot of money for a 'little black dress'  ::).  Still inappropriate work wear!
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Pennyfarthing on February 08, 2020, 09:59:16 PM
I was right then!  It IS just a cheapo dress .... ?35 from ASOS.

We all know that buyers can retract bids on Ebay and I bet it raises nowhere near ?13,000.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 08, 2020, 10:41:06 PM
How much will you bet - a box of Black Magic will do ;-)
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: getting_old on February 08, 2020, 11:41:32 PM
I think she deliberately wore the dress knowing the media coverage it would generate. Presumably she wants to raise her profile for some reason?

Highly unprofessional.

Totally agree. Sad thing is that she got publicity, let's hope everyone sees through the stunt.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Sparrow on February 13, 2020, 10:25:03 PM
The dress finally raised ?20,000 for Girl guiding.   :)
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 14, 2020, 09:57:17 AM
I do hope that she gives the monies to a local Troop and not to HQ  :-\
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Barnacle on February 14, 2020, 07:13:25 PM
She popped up in a old episode of Law and Order:UK the other night. I did chuckle to myself.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 14, 2020, 07:52:08 PM
In *that* dress  :D
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: dahliagirl on February 14, 2020, 08:33:57 PM
I thought it was a bit odd until I read that she was an actress and it all made sense. ;D

I hope the money goes locally - I am not impressed with the head office these days as they burn money and they get enough off the local troops anyway.
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: Barnacle on February 14, 2020, 10:47:59 PM
In *that* dress  :D


No CLKD  ;D No off the shoulder frocks were seen!
Title: Re: Tracy Brabin MP off shoulder dress at work
Post by: CLKD on February 15, 2020, 01:20:41 PM
 :lol: