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Title: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: English Rose on April 17, 2013, 06:04:09 PM
Hello all

Am I alone in finding the following emoticon offensive? :

 :beat:

I noticed this yesterday in someone's posted message, and it seems to depict someone violently beating someone else over the head with a hammer.

I really don't think this is very pleasant and it's at odds with the generally supportive environment of this forum.  Am I being too sensitive?

Best wishes
English Rose
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Taz2 on April 17, 2013, 06:12:35 PM
Sorry - but I think it's ok. We have used it before when a member has been a bit reluctant to go to the doc about something. I don't find it offensive but I can see that at first sight it might look a little strange.

Taz x
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: honeybun on April 17, 2013, 06:47:16 PM
Sorry I am with Taz on this one......It's just a bit of fun.

We have the grind and bump bananas, the one being prodded with a stick and the one being kicked up the bum.

We used to have one lady....Mrs Purple who had the very best smilies. She always made me smile.

Honeyb
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Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: English Rose on April 17, 2013, 07:06:23 PM
Hmmm

honeyb - yes I've been around long enough to remember Mrs P and her emoticons.

Nope.....I still think that one is awful, - as is this one:

 :kick:

...and this one isn't very nice either:

 :poke2:

....all a bit childish.   I detest anything depicting violence towards another. I wouldn't beat, kick or prod anyone in real life, so why is it remotely amusing??  That's my last comment on this matter. Peace!    :)
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Joyce on April 17, 2013, 07:09:59 PM
I don't find it offensive. It's just a bit of fun. Don't know anyone who has objected in the past.  But I know where you are coming from.
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Taz2 on April 17, 2013, 07:32:47 PM
I guess we are all different and if there was one I didn't like then I wouldn't feel as if I had to use it but wouldn't mind others putting it in their posts.

Taz x
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: ariadne on April 17, 2013, 08:19:16 PM
I don't find them offensive. I think we need them because the written word often doesn't come across how we would say something.

For instance we might jokingly say someone needs "a kick up the bum"  :kick:  or we might want to say "Oi, you"  :poke2:

It's to lighten the tone of the written word in my opinion.

And I also hate violence of any kind.

ariadne xx
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: CLKD on April 17, 2013, 08:20:01 PM
Have you never poked anyone, or nudged someone to reiterate a point  :-\  ::) .......... I hate violence and was going to e-mail a Company last night after seeing an advert which smashed garden knomes  >:( - but can't remember the Company  :bang: :bang: :bang: - on the back of the Boston marathon horrors I thought that the particular advert is offensive.
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Elena on April 17, 2013, 08:31:08 PM
I cant bear violence but i find all those emoticons amusing especially the way the purple one falls completely flat on it's face - it's just like slapstick.  I could watch that and find it funny every time but that's just me.

We watched Fawlty Towers recently and I was very taken aback with the way Basil handled Polly in one particular episode.  He was bundling her about like a sack of potatoes, mustve really hurt.  I wouldnt have picked up on that at the time it first came out.  I think we are all more sensitive to that sort of thing these days.
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Taz2 on April 17, 2013, 08:42:11 PM
Do you mean the Ikea advert CLKD? If so I really like it - especially as there is a twist at the end! They are evil gnomes not the nice sort which you may have in your garden  :lol: 

I will put the link here (don't watch CLKD) but not sure if it is advertising! http://www.adweek.com/news/advertising-branding/ad-day-ikea-148648
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: CLKD on April 18, 2013, 09:31:22 AM
 :thankyou:  again  ::) : you must spend all your spare time searching for 'links'  ???
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Suzi Q on April 18, 2013, 10:33:41 AM
Its PC gone nuts
Its a joke aimed at fun and laughter Dont you watch Punch and Judy Shows ???
I think the gen on here is its a bit of fun Ive had that sent to me to go to GP
Knock some sence in to me Hun Lighten up OK
Big Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*

CLKD behave!!!!!!!!!!!! ;) ;) ;) ;)
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: CLKD on April 18, 2013, 10:39:11 AM
Moi?
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Suzi Q on April 18, 2013, 10:46:12 AM
Im laughing here YES you hehehehehehehehe god your funny hehehehe
Youove brought a HUGE smile to my face if you could see me sitting here typing away with a cheshire cheese grin
ya sod hehehehehehehe

LITTLE OLD MOI heheheheh
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: honeybun on April 18, 2013, 10:47:21 AM
Those French classes weren't wasted then CLKD.

 ;D

Honeyb
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Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: CLKD on April 18, 2013, 10:48:21 AM
 :clapping:  DH is off on another Course as we type.   ::)
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: lily on April 18, 2013, 03:34:04 PM
I don't find them offensive.  I also find them amusing and they can help put a point across really well!  I think most people just use them in their own posts about themselves or to sum up poor service somewhere, but could see that if someone commented on my post and used it about my post I might mind. 
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Taz2 on April 18, 2013, 04:15:45 PM
CLKD - all I put in was "advert smashing garden gnomes". Not much time needed there - I did it while waiting for a school report to save!  :na:

Taz x
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: pixie on April 18, 2013, 04:54:18 PM
 ;D Can't help but chuckle at all this garden gnomery!
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Taz2 on April 18, 2013, 05:48:23 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0foMKAxCww   ... be afraid... be very afraid....

Taz   :lol:
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: pixie on April 18, 2013, 07:05:09 PM
 :rofl:

What with them and the hobbits - the bottom of the garden is far too busy! X
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Taz2 on April 18, 2013, 09:55:59 PM
... and then there are the fairies.. don't forget about them.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ijif8elxhVQ

Taz x  :bounci:
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Rowan on April 19, 2013, 07:18:26 AM
Here's a real one  ;D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEBPRCtGL_Q
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Suzi Q on April 19, 2013, 08:54:15 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0foMKAxCww   ... be afraid... be very afraid....

Taz   :lol:


hehehehehaaaaaaaa hehehehehe cant stop laugi I cant spell at the best of times heheheheheheh haaaaaa
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: angelindskiexx on April 19, 2013, 12:21:10 PM
Not sure if I should be commenting on this thread but to be perfectly honest I think animated emoticons are the last thing on my mind.  I'm just too sick :crutch: some days -  I can't be bothered with things like this.

Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Limpy on April 19, 2013, 02:26:25 PM
Hello all

Am I alone in finding the following emoticon offensive? :

 :beat:

I noticed this yesterday in someone's posted message, and it seems to depict someone violently beating someone else over the head with a hammer.

I really don't think this is very pleasant and it's at odds with the generally supportive environment of this forum.  Am I being too sensitive?

Best wishes
English Rose

Hi English Rose - that emoticon does accurately portray my feelings of exasperation in several circumstances. 

For example;

Pointing out to OH that the bins / recycling are done on Fridays - and have been for the last 10 years. This conversation happens every week, but it's a constant surprise to him.

Again with OH, banana skins are, and always have been compostable, and shouldn't go in with ordinary- non-recyclable rubbish.

With BT - when contacting them to report a phone line being out of order. Getting told to contact them online. But I haven't got any sort of phone  connection at all, let alone online. SCREAM

The "offensive" emoticons suitably represent my emotions
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: CLKD on April 19, 2013, 02:27:27 PM
OH Limpy we have similar conversations weekly too  >:( - I think I started a thread somewhere  :-\
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Limpy on April 19, 2013, 02:31:21 PM
CLKD - I haven't been paying attention - Sorry
Too busy taking the bins out!    ;D
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: CLKD on April 19, 2013, 02:35:29 PM
Oh the thread was several months ago  ::)
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: angelindskiexx on April 19, 2013, 02:58:47 PM
oh - should have read the date - sorry  :-\   I should have been paying attention.   I'll shut up next time lol  :-X
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Elena on April 19, 2013, 06:23:10 PM
 :clapping:  Limpy, that made me laugh!!   :thankyou:
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: honeybun on April 19, 2013, 09:34:07 PM
In the bin pixie.

We won't tell honest

 ;D

Honeyb
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Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: pixie on April 19, 2013, 09:35:56 PM
Whoops I just pressed the wrong button - as I said before - Where does one put a banana skin if no compost heap available :parti:

And thanks for clarifying HB x
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: lily on April 19, 2013, 09:37:15 PM
Also guilty as charged re-banana skins as I put mine in kitchen bin which gets emptied into non recycable (is this a word, doesn't look right?) bin.
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: Limpy on April 20, 2013, 10:07:48 AM
The thing with recycling is I fear it may all be in vain anyway.

About 6 weeks ago, I am sure that the recycling stuff (I can't spell recycleable either) went in the same bin lorry as the ordinary rubbish.  Didn't want to ring council as that may upset binmen, who would then leave the bins further away from the house, and spill more, than they do at the moment!
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: lily on April 20, 2013, 10:13:42 AM
It really annoys me when they leave stuff that they dropped  >:(
Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: honeybun on April 20, 2013, 01:01:20 PM
Same thing happens here Limpy.

Which kind of goes back to my original point of why bother.

Honeyb
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Title: Re: Offensive Emoticon
Post by: CLKD on April 20, 2013, 04:09:53 PM
Angle - you are absolutely fine to post here  ;)

We have a recyling thread - I think  ???