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Menopause Discussion => All things menopause => Topic started by: AlexDaisy on August 28, 2023, 10:51:17 AM

Title: Bra
Post by: AlexDaisy on August 28, 2023, 10:51:17 AM
Some advice please! I’ve been going crazy trying to find a bra that will fit .. be comfortable and support. I have gone from a manageable 36DD to an outrageous 38E ( perhaps even bigger now) .. because my HRT dosage is so high. I’ve spent a fortune.. and just can’t seem to find a decent one .. that will make my day to day life a little better.
I’ve gone from a size 8/10.. to a 14 . But most of the weight has gone to my breast . They are sore .. swollen and out of control.
Any advice would be appreciated.
I should add that I live on an island so it’s not like I can just go out and search . But if I got some recommendations.. I would go off island and do some shopping. I just need to know what to look for . Far too many online.. and I’ve been buying and returning for a while .
Help !! 🙈🙈😂
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: CLKD on August 28, 2023, 11:31:04 AM
Get properly measured: 85% of women are in the wrong size.  I'll have a. look-C , there's a company that does extra sized bra fittings but can't remember who!

 :welcomemm:   which HRT regime are you using and has it helped ease symptoms?
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: CLKD on August 28, 2023, 11:32:17 AM
Bramissivo -
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Title: Re: Bra
Post by: Katherine on August 28, 2023, 11:48:29 AM
I can highly recommend the marks and spencer goodmove sports bra with the zip up the front. I’m a 32G and wear the 36F, the sizing is different from normal bras but they are the most comfy bras ever. They have them in black turquoise and pink, I live in them!
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 28, 2023, 12:14:39 PM
I was finally able to find my correct bra size by using a bra calculator on boob or bust website. They have a different way of measuring then the shops and I found it was more accurate for me. I would give their instructions a go and you may be surprised to learn you are a different bra size to what you thought. :)

As for recommendations, I only know websites unfortunately.
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: CLKD on August 28, 2023, 01:49:01 PM
I don't wear one ;-). 
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: Emma on August 29, 2023, 09:19:00 AM
I understand how frustrating and uncomfortable this situation must be for you. Finding a bra that fits well and provides the necessary support can make a significant difference in your daily comfort. Here are some tips to help you find a suitable bra:


Everyone's body is unique, and what works best for one person might not work for another. Don't be discouraged by the process, and keep experimenting until you find the bras that make you feel comfortable and supported. If possible, consider consulting with a lingerie specialist or a healthcare professional who has experience with the effects of HRT on body changes.
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: CLKD on August 29, 2023, 10:18:14 AM
 :thankyou:
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: Katherine on August 29, 2023, 05:08:44 PM
I can't abide underwires, they are torture devices. My sports bras are one of the best things that ever happened to me. Apparently you can buy bras with 'soft wires' rather than the usual 'hard wires' you find in most dept stores but they were much more expensive in the shop I found them anyway.
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: SundayGirl on August 29, 2023, 06:10:10 PM
I can highly recommend Bravissimo.

I discovered them about 15 years ago and was so impressed with the service from the ladies in the store and the wide range of styles they have.

I went in wearing a 36DD and came out two band sizes down and three cup size up. The comfiest I'd been for a long time. I now wear a 32GG and wouldn't go anywhere else.

They don't use tape measures but do everything by sight and they offer a virtual fitting service if you can't get into a store.
Title: Re: Bra
Post by: CLKD on September 01, 2023, 08:46:54 AM
How did U get on?