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General Discussion => This 'n' That => Topic started by: Haydo on August 18, 2022, 11:32:09 AM

Title: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Haydo on August 18, 2022, 11:32:09 AM
There have been a lot of us concerned that Flossieteacake has left, following on from a thread she started where she was obviously feeling down about things.  Many of us have posted our concern about her, and it’s been suggested I start a new thread, using her name, in the hope that she might see it, where we can express our concern for her and hope that she might consider coming back.  Even if she doesn’t come back I think it would be nice for her to know we are thinking of her, if she does look at the forum.  This is what I previously posted. 

Oh Flossieteacake I see that you have left! There are many who are concerned about you.  You have been so kind and helpful to so many, including me.  Please consider coming back.  I am sure there are members on here who can help and support you with your particular problem.  Take care of yourself. x
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: CLKD on August 18, 2022, 11:52:29 AM
I already started a thread  :-\ perhaps do a search first?
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Tora on August 18, 2022, 12:02:50 PM
There have been a lot of us concerned that Flossieteacake has left, following on from a thread she started where she was obviously feeling down about things.  Many of us have posted our concern about her, and it’s been suggested I start a new thread, using her name, in the hope that she might see it, where we can express our concern for her and hope that she might consider coming back.  Even if she doesn’t come back I think it would be nice for her to know we are thinking of her, if she does look at the forum.  This is what I previously posted. 

Oh Flossieteacake I see that you have left! There are many who are concerned about you.  You have been so kind and helpful to so many, including me.  Please consider coming back.  I am sure there are members on here who can help and support you with your particular problem.  Take care of yourself. x

Great idea Haydo and lovely message for a lovely member.

Flossieteacake, please get in touch. Lot’s of us really care. X
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Marchlove on August 18, 2022, 12:13:43 PM
Hi Flossie

So very sorry you have left.
Is there anything we can all do to help you?
I know you were feeling very very low, I do hope you have rung your Gp and told him.
Reach out to everyone you can, so you don’t feel so alone.
Big hugs xx
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Wrensong on August 18, 2022, 12:44:29 PM
Hi Flossie, I hope you are reading & can see how much you are missed here.  I've not seen your thread Haydo mentioned so I don't know what may have happened, but I do know how kind, considerate & empathetic your posts have been in listening to & helping others & that if you decide not to come back you will be a great loss to the forum.

I do hope you're OK & please get in touch with us if we can help in any way.  :hug:
Wx
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Minusminnie on August 19, 2022, 05:27:46 AM
Hi Flossie
I am still thinking about you this morning and hope that you are still reading the forum and are thinking of returning.  Your kind, thoughtful posts gave a lot to members.  Many would now like to help you in return so that you do not feel so alone. I will log in later this evening.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Ayesha on August 19, 2022, 10:34:08 AM
By reading your posts I am someone you helped with your wonderful advice and I am enormously grateful to you for that. You gave me the confidence and knowledge to seek out the correct treatment I so obviously needed.

I hope you read the messages, you left far too suddenly that left us all concerned for your welfare xx
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Emma on August 19, 2022, 12:04:16 PM
watch this space....
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: CLKD on August 19, 2022, 12:04:38 PM
 :thankyou:
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 01:00:18 PM
Hello everybody. I am so very sorry to have worried you all. I had no idea anybody would notice I left or think anything of it. I really am sorry for this. I am so shocked by this thread and your kind and lovely messages.

I had no clue I was ever helpful on here. I will continue to use this forum as you are all so lovely.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: CLKD on August 19, 2022, 01:04:44 PM
 :foryou:  you were missed.

Members should never feel that experiences shared don't help others.  They can be read and used or shelved for later consideration.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Marchlove on August 19, 2022, 01:05:17 PM
Oh Flossie, a big welcome back!
You’ve brought a few tears to my eyes, good one’s for a change!

I do so hope you are feeling slightly better.  Xx :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 01:06:07 PM
:foryou:  you were missed.

Members should never feel that experiences shared don't help others.  They can be read and used or shelved for later consideration.

Thank you.  :)
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 01:06:48 PM
Oh Flossie, a big welcome back!
You’ve brought a few tears to my eyes, good one’s for a change!

I do so hope you are feeling slightly better.  Xx :-*

I am so so sorry I made you worry. Thank you so much for the concern and kind words.  :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Haydo on August 19, 2022, 01:27:54 PM
I am so pleased you are back.  You have made my Friday!  I do hope you are feeling better about things.  Your kind and sympathetic words on this forum are really appreciated.  x
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 01:29:05 PM
I am so pleased you are back.  You have made my Friday!  I do hope you are feeling better about things.  Your kind and sympathetic words on this forum are really appreciated.  x

That is so kind of you. Thank you so much.  :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Dotty on August 19, 2022, 01:37:52 PM
 :) Hi lovely to have you back x
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 01:50:09 PM
:) Hi lovely to have you back x
Thank you Dotty. That is kind. :)
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Limpy on August 19, 2022, 01:52:01 PM
Flossieteacake - it is good to have you back.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 01:53:22 PM
Flossieteacake - it is good to have you back.
Thank you very much Limpy. :)
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: littleminnie on August 19, 2022, 02:05:47 PM
 :hug:  welcome back!
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Minusminnie on August 19, 2022, 02:08:36 PM
Yee ha good to see you back Flossieteacake.  :)
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 02:12:45 PM
:hug:  welcome back!

Thank you. Hugs back. :)
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 02:13:26 PM
Yee ha good to see you back Flossieteacake.  :)

I am very sorry to have worried you. I really appreciate your concern. :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Jenna on August 19, 2022, 02:23:57 PM
Welcome back Flossieteacake  :foryou: You have made a lot of MM ladies very happy! :cancan: :cancan:
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 02:34:37 PM
Welcome back Flossieteacake  :foryou: You have made a lot of MM ladies very happy! :cancan: :cancan:

That is so sweet. Thank you so much. :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Ayesha on August 19, 2022, 02:40:57 PM
A very welcome back from me. You don't know me from Adam but your posts on MM have helped me enormously!   :thankyou:

 
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: jaypo on August 19, 2022, 03:02:27 PM
Yay,welcome back my lovely  :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: C.C. on August 19, 2022, 03:11:07 PM
So great to see you back! :foryou:
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 03:27:23 PM
A very welcome back from me. You don't know me from Adam but your posts on MM have helped me enormously!   :thankyou:

 

I am really honoured to hear that. I would never have guessed. Thank you so much. :)
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 03:27:48 PM
Yay,welcome back my lovely  :-*

Aww, thank you. :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 19, 2022, 03:28:13 PM
So great to see you back! :foryou:
Thank you so much. :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: sheila99 on August 19, 2022, 10:17:58 PM
I'm so glad you're back but most of all I'm relieved you're OK. You sounded so down I was concerned too.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 20, 2022, 06:07:43 AM
I'm so glad you're back but most of all I'm relieved you're OK. You sounded so down I was concerned too.

Thank you. I am sorry to have worried you.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Gnatty on August 20, 2022, 07:58:35 AM
Welcome back! How are you doing?
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 20, 2022, 08:10:48 AM
Welcome back! How are you doing?
Thank you Gnatty. I am ok. You are very sweet to ask. :-*
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Gnatty on August 20, 2022, 08:17:53 AM
That's good to hear x
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 20, 2022, 08:20:32 AM
That's good to hear x

Thank you so much.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Minusminnie on August 20, 2022, 08:51:46 AM
You already know that Private Lives is the place to talk more should you want to.  You give a lot to others Flossie. I'm glad you are ok.
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 20, 2022, 09:01:47 AM
You already know that Private Lives is the place to talk more should you want to.  You give a lot to others Flossie. I'm glad you are ok.

Thank you so much. I will bare that in mind.  :)
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Wrensong on August 26, 2022, 04:14:57 PM
Flossieteacake, I've only just logged on after a few days off & I'm so glad to know you're back & that you're OK.  You've given everyone who reads the forum something uniquely kind & sensitive in your posts, which are heartwarming to read, so please don't ever doubt how valuable a member you are.  I hope you're OK & that in turn you'll feel supported by the many lovely women here.
 :hug:
Title: Re: Flossieteacake - please come back
Post by: Flossieteacake on August 26, 2022, 04:17:44 PM
Flossieteacake, I've only just logged on after a few days off & I'm so glad to know you're back & that you're OK.  You've given everyone who reads the forum something uniquely kind & sensitive in your posts, which are heartwarming to read, so please don't ever doubt how valuable a member you are.  I hope you're OK & that in turn you'll feel supported by the many lovely women here.
 :hug:

That was such a lovely post to read. Thank you Wrensong. :-*