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Menopause Discussion => Other Health Discussion => Topic started by: Nik2502 on April 14, 2022, 05:38:46 PM

Title: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 14, 2022, 05:38:46 PM
Evening

Found a lump in bed last night, rang GP this morning. She saw me this afternoon and is 99% sure it’s a cyst. I have been referred to Breast Clinic on 27 April.
I’m panicking and feel anxious as hell now.

Just needed to get it off my chest  :-\

Nik x
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: jaypo on April 14, 2022, 06:09:54 PM
What does the lump feel like? Look on the nhs site,it explains the difference between cysts and anything nasty.Does it move beneath your fingers? Or Is it very hard & fixed ? I get lumps in my breast all the time,it's very common as we get older,so chances are it IS a cyst but glad you're getting it checked out
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: arc73 on April 14, 2022, 06:10:11 PM
I'm not surprised you are worrying but I don't think GPs offer that much false reassurance, so if she's 99% sure it's a cyst then that's a good start

I've got a fibroadenoma the size of a marble that my GP suspected was a cyst. Equally benign

It's good that you get fast tracked for breast lumps so you won't have too long to wait
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 15, 2022, 07:46:51 AM
Hi

Thanks for your replies.

Sometimes it feels soft, sometimes it feels harder. It’s long like a small sausage!

GP said not to lose sleep over it but that’s easier said than done for me. I’m a terrible worrier.

I’m glad she referred me on the 2WW anyway though.

Nik x
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: jaypo on April 15, 2022, 08:04:57 AM
Ah that's what I had Arc73,they removed mine but it was benign,they only removed it because I have quite a few close family members that have had breast cancer.
A tumour wouldn't go soft and hard like that,cysts fill up with fluid,which will make them feel hard (ish) at the start but then they go fluidy and feel softer,don't keep pressing on it or you will make it painful.Learn to feel what they feel like,go onto that NHS site,it's very informative,I'm forever getting cysts but now know what to feel for.Please let us know how it goes x
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: marge on April 15, 2022, 08:20:30 AM
Also had a number of breast cysts and had them drained.  Pretty sure your GP would not have said what she said unless she was certain.  Hope all is ok; I'm sure it will be, though you will worry naturally.
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Ju Ju on April 15, 2022, 10:19:38 AM
Yes, I’ve also had cysts and even had one removed. Every time I have a mammogram the radiologist will comment on the neat scar! Of course you are worried, but as the others say, it’s unlikely you would have been told it was a cyst by your GP if she thought it was something more sinister. When my GP thought the lump I found was something to worry about, I was fast tracked. It was a cyst again.
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Postmeno3 on April 15, 2022, 11:58:27 AM
Trust. Make the 99% about trust. ⚘
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: sheila99 on April 15, 2022, 01:57:38 PM
I have been on your situation. Worried sick convinced it was BC. It was a cyst and all that worry had been pointless. I know it won't stop you worrying but do try, most lumps turn out to be OK. How quickly did it it appear? Mine was surprisingly big in a short period of time.
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 16, 2022, 08:38:56 AM
Thank you all. I’m sort of calming down now!
It appeared quickly I think. I’m regular at examining mystic and didn’t have it last month.
It’s definitely softer x
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: jaypo on April 16, 2022, 10:17:41 AM
It'll be a cyst my lovely,deep breaths xx
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 25, 2022, 07:33:14 AM
Morning ladies

Really starting to panic about my appointment on Wednesday. Feel ill today.
Just really needed to tell someone. Hubby keeps saying don’t worry but I can’t help it!

Thank you
Nik x
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: jaypo on April 25, 2022, 09:00:10 AM
It's natural to feel this way,EVEN after all the reassurance from us,I'd be exactly the same,we can't unfortunately control our brains,you MUST let us know how you get on,how is the lump doing?
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: CLKD on April 25, 2022, 09:07:17 AM
Make a list of your worries to take with you, get DH to jot down the answers.  If you don't understand, ask, ask, ask.

I had a lump which had changes at the margins, so underwent lumpectomy, precautionary radiation for 4 weeks: still here!  It's the not knowing for me, once we had a diagnosis, we could get on: that's me, the Surgeon, his team, DH ...........  :hug:  if you do need anything surgical done, wear a nightie that buttons down the front ;-).  Quicker for those examinations when the Drs do their Rounds. 
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: sheila99 on April 25, 2022, 02:52:26 PM
It will be a cyst. The c ones don't grow that quickly. By Wednesday afternoon you will be wondering why you let it wind you up so much (but advising someone else is easy, I couldn't control the panic either  :().
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Tinkerbell on April 25, 2022, 04:24:49 PM
I can relate to how you feel. I had a lump, GP was convinced it was just infection, which it was, but for two weeks i was convinced it was something far more serious.
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 25, 2022, 06:22:34 PM
Thank you ladies. I know I’m panicking probably over nothing but I’m a worrier anyway. Once I know I’ll feel better. I really appreciate your support xx
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: jaypo on April 25, 2022, 07:24:54 PM
We'll all be thinking about you  :) xx
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 27, 2022, 07:00:48 AM
Thank you ladies. I’ll let you know how I get on later xx
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: jaypo on April 27, 2022, 07:14:53 AM
Good luck for today  :) xx
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Songbird on April 27, 2022, 07:59:01 AM
Thinking of you Nik xx
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 28, 2022, 01:52:20 PM
Thank you for your support ladies.
It’s an abscess. Antibiotics and a three month check. Phew! X
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Songbird on April 28, 2022, 02:22:58 PM
Oh Nik. I’m doing a wee happy dance for you  :parti:  Gr8 news  :bighug:
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: jaypo on April 28, 2022, 03:14:23 PM
Woooohhooooooo I'm so relieved for you, now,it's not for me to say we told you so  ;D
Seriously though,I'd have been exactly the same as you,the worry is awful.
Now you can enjoy a wonderful weekend 🥳🥳🥳
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Ju Ju on April 28, 2022, 07:59:39 PM
Brilliant! Yes, I know the relief! I have had 3 scares since my sister died of secondaries from breast cancer. Celebrate.
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: CLKD on April 28, 2022, 08:03:03 PM
YIPEE!  U can enjoy the Bank Holiday weekend  :ola:
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Taz2 on April 28, 2022, 11:11:58 PM
Great news!

Taz x  :foryou:
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 29, 2022, 07:24:58 AM
Thank you everyone. Such a relief xx
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: CLKD on April 29, 2022, 07:50:23 AM
Of course.   :tulips2:
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Tinkerbell on April 29, 2022, 12:32:23 PM
Great news, mine was an abscess too. It returned a year later, another load of antibiotics for 12 weeks that time, they also drained some fluid from around it and no trouble since then (2012)
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: sheila99 on April 29, 2022, 06:12:08 PM
What a relief. I don't think abscesses are very common? Did it hurt?
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: Nik2502 on April 30, 2022, 05:41:21 PM
No it didn’t hurt at all. It was just lurking under the skin! X
Title: Re: Breast lump
Post by: sheila99 on April 30, 2022, 05:53:20 PM
Thanks for the info. Hope the ABs clear it up soon.