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Menopause Discussion => All things menopause => Topic started by: Vicky81 on February 24, 2022, 11:04:16 AM

Title: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 24, 2022, 11:04:16 AM
Hi all

New to this so bear with....only started oestrogen gel 3 pumps and testosterone gel yesterday (progesterone im told to start 2st april) I'm 41 just turned and peri.

Had to take today off work (work in Broadmoor and just couldn't take it today)  anyway wanted to know if uncontrollable crying is caused by low  oestrogen? If so you guys think in on the right path/meds? I can't take being like this anymore....and the anxiety too...never go out socially anymore its awful way to live x
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Ms Peak on February 24, 2022, 10:13:27 PM
Hi there.
I understand a high pressure job and peri menopause.....ex safeguarding nurse.

My advice is be kind to yourself and seek support through your Occupation Health Service.

Keep in touch

Ms Peaks xx
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Dotty on February 25, 2022, 07:28:26 AM
Hi yes crying and feeling anxious can be caused by low oestrogen. x
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Nik2502 on February 25, 2022, 09:46:27 AM
Hi all

New to this so bear with....only started oestrogen gel 3 pumps and testosterone gel yesterday (progesterone im told to start 2st april) I'm 41 just turned and peri.

Had to take today off work (work in Broadmoor and just couldn't take it today)  anyway wanted to know if uncontrollable crying is caused by low  oestrogen? If so you guys think in on the right path/meds? I can't take being like this anymore....and the anxiety too...never go out socially anymore its awful way to live x

I feel for you. I’m the same. I think it is low oestrogen. You have to give it time to get in to your system. It will get better x
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: CLKD on February 25, 2022, 09:59:46 AM
 :bighug:
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 25, 2022, 03:16:32 PM
Awwww thank you to all of you so far who have responded.

Very much appreciated.....

I am so glad that it is deffo low oestrogen causing this (i am very new to all this so i am questioning everything that could be he cause)

You are so knowledgeable on here thanks xxx
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: CLKD on February 25, 2022, 04:12:11 PM
How were you moods during your menstruating years?
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Shannonplussed on February 25, 2022, 04:27:42 PM
We are different. For me, I cry a lot more when my estrogen dosage is higher than when it is lower.
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 25, 2022, 06:11:05 PM
Hi I'm not sure if I'm getting too much at present...3 pumps I was told ...today I felt ok to be fair... bit teary at work (didn't cry though) x
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: CLKD on February 25, 2022, 06:14:44 PM
MayB drop to 2 every night with 3 occasionally? 
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 25, 2022, 07:08:56 PM
Yeah could do....food for thought thanks CLKD xx
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: sweettooth on February 26, 2022, 08:58:09 AM
Vicky usually best to start lower and build up as No1 your body gradually adjusts and 2 you know how much more or less is better for you. I’m post Meno but low Estrogen would have caused the crying spells! X
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 26, 2022, 09:51:43 AM
Thank you so much xx
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Turkish delight on February 26, 2022, 10:55:19 AM
Hia,

I think you are barking up the right tree Vicky.

I cry a lot when my Oestrogen is dipping before having a bleed most times, just like PMT was when I had periods.
Hang in there, it will get better I promise. Once you have the estrogen coursing through your body at the right levels it'll thank you for it.
Till then it's just a waiting game, so don't worry about it and cry if you want to, as the song says. :'(  Noting wrong with a good sob in itself.

TD X
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 26, 2022, 12:20:17 PM
Hi Turkish delight

Thank you so much. Which HRT are you on and did it get rid of symptoms?, if so which symptoms? Xx
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Turkish delight on February 26, 2022, 03:03:21 PM
Hia Vicky,

I'm on Oestrogel and Utrogestan.
You tend to start low and work up until your symptoms are stable. Undesirable symptoms come from seesawing hormones, hormone fluctuation which happens most during peri. So starting at maybe 2 pumps, up to what works to keep your symptoms at bay but slowly so not to have a swinging pendulum effect.

We are all different so it's a lot of trial and error finding your own level and it is a moving target as you move through peri to post meno.
If I start getting hot flushes again, headaches, mood swings, insomnia, tearfulness, dry mouth and the rest, then I up my gel a small amount and wait a week or so to see the benefits.

TD
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 26, 2022, 03:24:09 PM
I have put 4 pumps in today (stupidly) I feel a bit heady and spaced ....is that to be expected or not?, xx
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: CLKD on February 26, 2022, 03:33:27 PM
Yep.  What were you trying to achieve?  :-\
Title: Re: Uncontrollable crying
Post by: Vicky81 on February 26, 2022, 06:23:57 PM
I know  :o