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Title: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 12, 2020, 11:55:19 AM
I will be buying:

sunflower hearts and peanuts for the birds
solar garden lights - lots of
an orange blossom shrub
hostas x 3
bedding plants/shrubs if available
astrantia x 3
anything else that I fancy  ;D

fish flakes
slippers
socks

hand wash
chocolate drink


Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Sparrow on April 12, 2020, 12:13:42 PM
Holiday

Holiday

Oh, and another holiday. :sunny: :clapping:
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 12, 2020, 12:14:51 PM
I won't be mixing too soon in case it peaks! and the roads will be SO busy  ;D

Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: littleminnie on April 12, 2020, 12:18:59 PM
Seeing family
Going to the Garden Centre
Going shopping
Planning holidays
Going back into work.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Two hoots on April 12, 2020, 12:39:46 PM
Haircut  ;D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 12, 2020, 12:57:46 PM
 :lol:

more books ..........
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: jaypo on April 12, 2020, 03:48:46 PM
going to our lodge in Scotland and seeing our friends  :ola:
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Katejo on April 12, 2020, 06:02:00 PM
Holiday

Holiday

Oh, and another holiday. :sunny: :clapping:
Assuming we can get travel insurance after the FCO lifts travel restrictions. I can see insurers still refusing any cover to do with Covid 2019. 
Apart from that, I am not usually a hugger but I have had a really strong wish to hug someone ever since the restrictions  were imposed (particularly a colleague who lost her Mum suddenly just before the lockdown started). The loss wasn't caused by Covid but was still very difficult. i have heard a similar story from another friend today.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Yorkshire Girl on April 12, 2020, 06:19:47 PM
Holiday
Haircut
Seeing my Sister, BIL, nephew & niece
Out all the time, anywhere
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Sparrow on April 12, 2020, 06:24:24 PM
Holiday

Holiday

Oh, and another holiday. :sunny: :clapping:
Assuming we can get travel insurance after the FCO lifts travel restrictions. I can see insurers still refusing any cover to do with Covid 2019. 
Apart from that, I am not usually a hugger but I have had a really strong wish to hug someone ever since the restrictions  were imposed (particularly a colleague who lost her Mum suddenly just before the lockdown started). The loss wasn't caused by Covid but was still very difficult. i have heard a similar story from another friend today.

Gosh I know, isn't it difficult.  Social media is great but it can only go so far.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 12, 2020, 07:05:07 PM
I too won't be joining crowds any time soon. Have decided to do most of our weekly shop in the village as it is quicker.  For those higher-end items we will go to the supermarket if and when, not making specific journeys but when we go on a Friday as usual.

I want to buy British a lot more too.  Hopefully once Brexit - remember those days  ::) - more British caught fish/langousitnes etc. will be sold to UK shops and not to Spain.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Hurdity on April 12, 2020, 07:15:58 PM
I will be buying:

sunflower hearts and peanuts for the birds
solar garden lights - lots of
an orange blossom shrub
hostas x 3
bedding plants/shrubs if available
astrantia x 3
anything else that I fancy  ;D

fish flakes
slippers
socks

hand wash
chocolate drink

You can buy some of that online! Also petshops are open ( eg pets at home)....

After lockdown I look forward mainly to seeing my children and other family who live at a distance is the main thing, and of course going on holiday, though it felt like a holiday today :)

Going to live festivals and gigs/events!

It will be interesting to see if consumer habits change permanently or whether after this is (eventually) all over, rampant materialism combined with globetrotting to far flung places, will resume with gusto as before. It would be nice to think that things could change permanently after long term lockdown as people have learnt new skills, ways of working and come to realise what are the really important things in life, as well as valuing people and skills who are among the least valued in society.

Going to our local pub!

Hurdity x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 12, 2020, 07:20:41 PM
I could buy bird food from our local garden centre but it's local of 15 miles away - they will deliver but the Police don't think it's an essential journey  :-\

I can't understand why pets at home remained open: our nearest is a 30 mile round trip.

We tried to buy seeds on line - a 5 week waiting list  :-\

I think that Life will resume to 'normal' as long as airlines get up and running.  We had 2 planes and a a drone across here today  >:(.  I would like those UK orgnaisations/factories that have picked up the pieces and are now providing items that were previously sourced from China and other cheaply produced places to get the recognition they deserve.

Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Katejo on April 12, 2020, 08:34:56 PM
Being able to drive to my favourite walks. Hugging my children, going on holiday.
Most of the things I want I can buy online, including plants.
Just getting out and about. Can't see it happening this year though as this virus isn't going away anytime soon. I will still be scared and probably avoiding  people.
  Yes walks right out in the countryside but by train for me not car. I could get to Epping Forest (only 3 stops on an overground train) but would feel guilty doing that at the moment. I wouldn't want to buy plants online. Had hoped to go to Crews Hill (near Enfield) ,where there are lots of garden shops all conveniently close together, but had to abandon that.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 12, 2020, 08:36:34 PM
I buy directly from Nurseries by post and I believe that many have opened since Wed..

Most Garden Centres are shut unless they can deliver locally but there are weeks of queues for orders  ::)
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Taz2 on April 12, 2020, 08:48:31 PM
I could buy bird food from our local garden centre but it's local of 15 miles away - they will deliver but the Police don't think it's an essential journey  :-\

I can't understand why pets at home remained open and our nearest is a 30 mile round trip.

We tried to buy seeds on line - a 5 week waiting list  :-\
I order my seeds from Jacobi Jayne/Living with birds. It was a two day delivery time last week. Might be worth a try.

Taz x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: sheila99 on April 12, 2020, 09:16:14 PM
I'm going start my stockpile so I'm ready for next time - loo paper, baked beans, hand sanitiser  :)  I still haven't seen any hand sanitiser since this began.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Barnacle on April 12, 2020, 09:19:19 PM
I haven't seen any either, nor spaghetti.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Ju Ju on April 12, 2020, 09:31:31 PM
Wish I could send you the spare one I have! I don't need it as I can't go out and hand washing with soap is more effective as you rinse everything away. And no I haven't been stock piling. I get sent complimentary ones with my monthly prescription for my trans anal system.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: getting_old on April 12, 2020, 10:17:12 PM
Going to the holiday cottage and trying to avoid ever returning to the house (I hated house and neighbourhood before this started!) and buying everything I need there to help their local economy. I always buy as much as I can there, and bring it back to the house so we're running low on supplies at the moment, but I'm limiting what I buy here to absolute essentials.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Tc on April 12, 2020, 10:57:53 PM
See my family.
It's obviously going to be in stages I cant see any festivals or big gigs,taking place this year. It's hard to see holiday parks or centres re opening for some time yet either.  Ppl have been in isolation in their own communities.  Anything that brings together huge numbers from all corners of the UK  will surely be way down the list..?
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Katejo on April 13, 2020, 03:05:49 AM
I haven't seen any either, nor spaghetti.
Local Sainsbury's ok for pasta on Saturday. Bought lasagne for later in the week.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: littleminnie on April 13, 2020, 07:51:35 AM
Pasta, toilet rolls & paracetamol are back in the shops near here.  No hand gel or anti bac wipes yet though.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Sparrow on April 13, 2020, 08:00:55 AM
I've ordered some hand gel.  Do a search for The hand wash shop.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 13, 2020, 08:16:35 AM
 :thankyou:  Taz  8)

Paracetamol comes in the main from India - apparently they have said that we 'can have some more' ........
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Dorothy on April 13, 2020, 10:20:45 AM
I'm going start my stockpile so I'm ready for next time - loo paper, baked beans, hand sanitiser  :) 
   ;D

I can't understand why pets at home remained open: our nearest is a 30 mile round trip.
Pets need to eat too!  I'm very grateful that the pet shop which stocks the only food my dog can eat is still open.

As for what I'm going to do after lockdown, #1 is get married!  Either on our original date or as soon as it is legally possible after.  #2 is try to build the business back up as quickly as possible.  Also, seeing family & friends and going on some lovely long walks in our favourite local places.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: jaypo on April 13, 2020, 11:03:25 AM
Yay a wedding  :)
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 13, 2020, 12:22:00 PM
 :great:
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Lanzalover on April 13, 2020, 02:53:49 PM
A wedding how lovely.

Lanzalover x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: jaypo on April 13, 2020, 07:39:16 PM
it's sad but true re our older folks but I was listening to a scientist on the news and he was saying until we start mixing again we won't build up a resistance to it,which,we need to do
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: sheila99 on April 13, 2020, 07:59:26 PM
Resistance doesn't help when you're dead. I thought they'd given up on the herd immunity bull sh*t. With any luck BJs close shave will make him think differently.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 13, 2020, 08:02:56 PM
So what will you plan ........ I had lots of bubble bath for C.mas but will need to restock  ;)
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Tc on April 13, 2020, 08:48:53 PM
But in building up resistance as a herd some of that herd will pay the price. I dont want my loved ones to  be that price. Vulnerable and elderly will still have to shield or face the same risk they have all along and now we  know just how deadly the second stage can be.

Did you see the Italian health minister on the news tonight.  She said that it's impossible to imagine restaurants will open and there will be no concerts or cinemas. She said its impossible to imagine a return to normal life until there is a vaccine. 

I know we have to get the country back to work first but  a lot of ppl also rely on the leisure industry for a living and  Our govt might not take the Italian view on pubs and restaurants etc and may reopen them sooner.
 
 It worries me sick that my elderly and vulnerable loved ones will see it as o.k to go or take that chance and In that sense I dread the cafes and restaurants and pubs re opening.

Xx

Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Barnacle on April 13, 2020, 09:41:58 PM
Me too Tc. My Dad will be off to the pub in his village for a pint, the minute they open the door, i'm sure he will. It's not the beer he's missing, he misses having a natter with them all.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Annie0710 on April 13, 2020, 10:21:36 PM
Seeing family
GOLF !
X
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Tc on April 13, 2020, 10:21:57 PM
True stellajane.  It must be so hard to for young vulnerable people too. So sad that he had just found a job he loved.too.
I hope his friends se keeping in touch with him.

Barnacle that's exactly it.

It's not been a good news day has it. Some realisations are sinking in and it's hard to swallow and to not  feel depressed about it all.  Let's all hope that day when they announce the vaccination.comes sooner than we might think

Stay safe xxxxx
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Tc on April 13, 2020, 10:23:05 PM
Seeing family
GOLF !
X

I hope your handicap has t slipped annie  :)x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Taz2 on April 14, 2020, 12:19:23 AM
Me too Tc. My Dad will be off to the pub in his village for a pint, the minute they open the door, i'm sure he will. It's not the beer he's missing, he misses having a natter with them all.

Tell your dad I know how he feels! Missing our local so badly but not as much as I'm missing my son's! That will be my first 'outing' - off to their houses for the most wonderful of hugs.

Taz x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Annie0710 on April 14, 2020, 06:40:28 AM
Seeing family
GOLF !
X

Haha I?ll have to learn how to hit the damn thing again x

I hope your handicap has t slipped annie  :)x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 14, 2020, 09:09:06 AM
Annie - can't you practice down the hall with a rolled up sock into an empty bean can  ;D

stellajane - can the nephew not be sent the require drugs so that he doesn't have to leave the property?



Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Annie0710 on April 14, 2020, 09:24:40 AM
Annie - can't you practice down the hall with a rolled up sock into an empty bean can  ;D

stellajane - can the nephew not be sent the require drugs so that he doesn't have to leave the property?

We've practised putting in the lounge and do have a practice net in the garden but been busy doing other stuff plus working from home but just saw a report that at least another 3 weeks of lockdown so will be out there practising how to do it all ! X
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Tc on April 14, 2020, 10:10:38 AM
Annie your putting will be amazing after all that practice. Just getting on the green might be the problem ;D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Annie0710 on April 14, 2020, 12:30:33 PM
Annie your putting will be amazing after all that practice. Just getting on the green might be the problem ;D

Tc too right ! :) x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Ju Ju on April 14, 2020, 12:53:55 PM
I won't be able to travel to see my son in the USA until there is a vaccine. I'm asthmatic and told I'm vulnerable.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Tc on April 14, 2020, 02:08:02 PM
Juju. I read that they are trying to speed up the process for vaccine. You will get there. . And what a reunion it will be. Xx
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Barnacle on April 14, 2020, 02:21:53 PM
Me too Tc. My Dad will be off to the pub in his village for a pint, the minute they open the door, i'm sure he will. It's not the beer he's missing, he misses having a natter with them all.

Tell your dad I know how he feels! Missing our local so badly but not as much as I'm missing my son's! That will be my first 'outing' - off to their houses for the most wonderful of hugs.

Taz x



It's tough isn't it?!. I do still see my Dad, as i do his shopping for him, but obviously don't go near him.

Ju Ju - Hopefully the vaccine won't take too long. I really do feel for you x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 14, 2020, 03:25:00 PM
I'm going to add:

blueberry bushes in tubs to my garden centre list  ;D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 14, 2020, 03:44:47 PM
Oh I didn't dare say that, I don't believe in vaccinations anyway unless it's certain to KILL the virus completely, as in Smallpox  :-\
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Sparrow on April 14, 2020, 04:48:11 PM
I expect it will be the over seventies first.  I'll see how that goes first.  Don't hold your breath though, it will be months or possibly never.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 14, 2020, 05:08:15 PM
Although it's the younger age groups that aren't showing anti-bodies at the same levels as oldies ;-)

DH wants to get back to his hobbies ....... at least fishing is solitary  :D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Sparrow on April 14, 2020, 05:34:09 PM
That's allowed.  We had a plumbing leak sort and were told it's regarded as essential.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 14, 2020, 05:41:00 PM
Our friend's a plumber and has been working nearby for 5 days thus far, it began as a leaking radiator but they have decided to update their system so that it actually works.  Works when they switch it on  ::) rather than when it thinks it might.

We need a new shower head.  I sent for a Victoria plumb catalogue in mid-Feb., supposed to arrive within 5 days but nope.  I also have a yen for a conservatory at the back to catch early morning sunshine  :whist:  can U see my list going up  8)
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Ju Ju on April 14, 2020, 07:21:27 PM
I ordered a new bed just before this all started. It was due to be delivered in a week. Haven't heard a thing, so I doubt that I will hear for a while. Hope I haven't lost the money. It took me ages to save up.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 14, 2020, 07:46:49 PM
R U able to track the order Ju Ju?  Have U contacted the company to see where it might have landed?

Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Dorothy on April 14, 2020, 09:54:43 PM
I'm going to add:

blueberry bushes in tubs to my garden centre list  ;D

Mine are flowering now - counting the flowers and wondering how many blueberries I'll get this summer!

NB:  Make sure you get at least two that flower at the same time, as they need it for pollinating.  If they flower at different times, you won't get any berries!
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 15, 2020, 08:21:08 AM
The blackbirds are partial to the berries on our plants ........... we used to pick them in the wild, because the bushes were grazed by sheep they were very low to the ground, very peaceful on a warm sunny day  :-*
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Two hoots on April 15, 2020, 09:50:12 AM
I have a blueberry bush, blackbird gets them all  ;D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 16, 2020, 11:23:09 AM
Easy Jet are going to keep the middle seat empty when they resume flights are lift-off of lockdown  ;) don't all rush at once  ;D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: sheila99 on April 16, 2020, 03:32:25 PM
...whilst blowing bugs at you from the air conditioning...
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 16, 2020, 04:05:16 PM
Another reason not to fly ?  ;D

Distancing is going to continue until a vaccine is found ........ yeah, right.
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Two hoots on April 18, 2020, 01:51:15 PM
I'm in contact with my hairdresser through Facebook, so she has been warned I've had a little trim  ;D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: jaypo on April 18, 2020, 01:58:35 PM
Define little trim TH  ;D
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Two hoots on April 18, 2020, 02:31:53 PM
Um, I have layered hair so I grab some on the top twist it and chop  ;D front I wet comb and try and cut straight  :o

So far it's ok, well I think it's ok, I know my hairdresser will laugh, but you know desperate times and all that.

I'm offering my services for a very large fee if anyone is interested, I'll put a chair outside the window, hosepipe to wet your fringe, I'll stick my hands out of the window with the kitchen scissors....  done   ;D

Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 18, 2020, 02:48:06 PM
 ;D on my way, you might as well practice on me first  :D

I wish that I had contact with my stylist if only to find out how she is and I have books for her  :-\
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: littleminnie on April 18, 2020, 05:13:39 PM
Um, I have layered hair so I grab some on the top twist it and chop  ;D front I wet comb and try and cut straight  :o

So far it's ok, well I think it's ok, I know my hairdresser will laugh, but you know desperate times and all that.

I'm offering my services for a very large fee if anyone is interested, I'll put a chair outside the window, hosepipe to wet your fringe, I'll stick my hands out of the window with the kitchen scissors....  done   ;D

Interesting.  How large will the fee be?
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: CLKD on April 18, 2020, 05:24:01 PM
A bottle of bubble bath and a bag of flour ?
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Foxylady on April 18, 2020, 06:33:12 PM
Trip to hairdressers & back to regular walks with my friend. x
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Emm225 on April 19, 2020, 05:03:15 PM
Family...not got them with me and miss them so much
Friends
Outings
PARTY!
Holidays and mini breaks

Oh....hairdressers (and you thought getting loo rolls was hard..wait til we are all fighting for appointments!) and shopping!
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: jillydoll on April 19, 2020, 05:22:20 PM
A bag of chocolate, and bottle wine? As payment TH. ?
Title: Re: After Lockdown, what then?
Post by: Two hoots on April 19, 2020, 05:34:21 PM
A bag of chocolate, and bottle wine? As payment TH. ?

Galaxy chocolate and cider will do nicely  ;D