Menopause Matters Forum
General Discussion => New Members => Topic started by: loveydovey on August 20, 2018, 12:22:40 PM
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I used to be on this Forum, years ago.
Thought i would join again and say hi to any older members.
Although i am 55 and post menopausal, i just dont have any interest in sex.
I do really feel sorry for hubby, we only do it when we go on holiday, still dont have the interest but do it for him, i suppose, any other ladies have the same issues?
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yes!
None at all without HRT. Bit better with hrt but I am changing my regime and hoping that I can get some testosterone which I believe makes it better. In my head I am really upset about it but my body isnt that bothered! You're right it is very upsetting for hubbys and I do everything I can to make the effort. I think it's very unfair otherwise but thats just me!
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Who were you B4 ;D - can you remember ;)
My libedo disappeared after 17 months of marriage :'( and I knew it was hormonal but the GPs kept telling me that I was depressed. I was. Depressed that a) they didn't listen and b) that my sex drive had disappeared. So I laid back ....... and over the years my nethers regained interest. There are other ways than penetration ;)
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"nethers regained interest" CLKD :rofl:
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Hi CLKD
I remember you, LoveyDovey, the same.
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I also remember Mrs Purple?
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I used to be on this Forum, years ago.
Thought i would join again and say hi to any older members.
Although i am 55 and post menopausal, i just dont have any interest in sex.
I do really feel sorry for hubby, we only do it when we go on holiday, still dont have the interest but do it for him, i suppose, any other ladies have the same issues?
Loveydovey!!!!! Hello!!!!!!!!!!!! I remember you! Back in the day... something like 6 or 7 years ago? I'm now mid 60's!!! Doing the business - maybe ask in private lives as, if you remember this sort of thing isn't often disclosed on public section of the forum ::). Look under testosterone threads also - and also the thread I started in private lives - Testosterone here we go. Lots about libido and intimate matters generally in private lives ....
As for members who you remember - well - many of them have gone now or changed their names or even returned under different names and then gone - much time has passed now so let's not go there!! ;). Tis all good!
Hurdity x
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Hi
I remember you to. ;D ;D ;D
Silverlady, Coffeemate, etc.
Im 55 soon, yes its been many years, just thought i would pop in, as this website has helped me so much back in the day ;).
Always problems, ok thanks, i will look for other places to post.
Testosterone, i dont want to grow a beard. :o
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Haha - testosterone -read the threads - lots of us take this now - the NICE Guidelines (2015) made provision for this although it is still unlicensed for women. Not a beard in sight!!!!! Much has changed since 2012! Glad to see you again! Lots of new members - you'll soon get to know them :)
Hurdity x
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Hurdity
How do i pm you, i cant find it on here?
Loveydovey
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Hi there - once you've made 10 posts (not counting the humour/this and that) you can pm - nearly there...
Hurdity x
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I am a testerone user and definitely don't have beard ;D don't believe everything you read.
If the correct amount is used the benefits are great.
Lanzalover x
Sorry should have mentioned that you should only add Testesterone when your Estrogen levels are high I'm not sure if you currently use HRT or not.
Lanzalover x