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General Discussion => This 'n' That => Topic started by: honeybun on September 28, 2014, 07:51:17 PM

Title: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: honeybun on September 28, 2014, 07:51:17 PM
As some of you will know my niece is getting married in November. I am doing the bulk of the catering for her very small reception in my sister's house. She is then having a night "do" for her friends.

So what to wear.
I had thought, a pair of dressy trousers and a pretty, dressy top. My daughter has thrown her hat in the ring and said no I should wear a dress. I need to wear something that will allow me to run around setting out sausage rolls and making tea and pouring wine....but will still look nice. Don't feel like spending a fortune and would like it to be something I can wear again......


HELP


Honeyb
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Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: bramble on September 28, 2014, 08:32:24 PM
HB, I would go for what you have suggested. Practical but dressy.

Bramble
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: Joyce on September 28, 2014, 09:01:52 PM
I agree. You have to be comfortable too.
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: Taz2 on September 28, 2014, 10:45:46 PM
Definitely trousers and a dressy top Honeyb.

Taz x
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: catdude on September 29, 2014, 10:53:54 AM
Wear what you will feel comfortable in.
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: purplenanny on September 29, 2014, 11:44:01 AM
Definitely your choice - you need to be comfortable.

Make your decision and go for it - you will look great! http://
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: Scampi on September 29, 2014, 12:28:21 PM
Which would you feel more comfortable wearing - go for that!

I catered a friend's wedding (50 guests) and wore a dress because I thought it would be expected - nightmare!!  Trying to put finishing touches to things in the kitchen, taking things out of the oven, etc, whilst making sure I didn't get my shoe caught in the hem, dip a sleeve in anything ... never again!  Should have gone for trousers!
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: honeybun on September 29, 2014, 12:51:16 PM
That's what I thought.

I need to be comfortable as well as dressed.

Trousers and a nice top it is.


Honeyb
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Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: purplenanny on September 29, 2014, 01:17:13 PM
Definately need to be dressed!  :o (http://:o)
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: Hurdity on September 29, 2014, 01:29:05 PM
Lots of tops that you wear with trousers (ie tunic styles of various kinds) look like dresses anyway - this is what I wear most of the time when out - so that's a good compromise anyway.  Also some longer garments sold as dresses look good over leggings (which are really like thick tights), so you could still wear a "dress" of sorts but not feel over dressed. Would go well with boots or shoes of your choice and no-one will even look at your trousers/leggings.

Hurdity x
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: purplenanny on September 29, 2014, 01:48:50 PM
Great idea Hurdity.
As a matter of interest where do you get your long tops from?
If you dont mind me asking
I was looking at Joe Brown but they seem expensive and charge for delivery
PN x x
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: babyjane on September 29, 2014, 02:08:04 PM
I agree with Hurdity and was going to suggest leggings with a dress/tunic. I am sure you will look nice whatever you choose to wear honeybun but dress for you, not for anyone else.
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: honeybun on September 29, 2014, 02:25:29 PM
Thanks BJ.

I like the tunic idea. Need to go shopping soon.


Honeyb
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Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: CLKD on September 29, 2014, 03:33:52 PM
You asked your sister  ::)  ;D ........  I would wear what I was comfy in.  Especially if there may be bending to remove things from ovens etc., one may need to bend or kneel down - though what would I know, DH does the cooking  ;D
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: ariadne on September 29, 2014, 06:01:12 PM
Trousers and tunic top is what I would go for too. I've got a pair of  black slim leg stretchy trousers that I wear with a cowl neck tunic (its a dress actually but too short for me) and low heel wedge sandals. Its very comfortable and looks dressed up even though it's so simple. And you can wear them with other things too of course.

You won't enjoy the occasion if you don't feel comfortable so definitely choose something that you know is right. :)

Ariadne xx
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: CLKD on September 29, 2014, 06:10:21 PM
Have something light to hand in case of spillage too  ;) - apron at the ready?
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: purplenanny on September 29, 2014, 06:46:24 PM
Don't forget to let us know what you choose!

Happy shopping!  :) (http://:))
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: CLKD on September 29, 2014, 06:54:21 PM
Menu - party bags - left overs ………
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: honeybun on September 29, 2014, 07:08:32 PM
My son is going CLKD, there will be no left overs  ;D

He can eat his body weight in sandwiches, and is so slim.......Not fair.  ::)


Honeyb
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Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: CLKD on September 29, 2014, 07:57:56 PM
 :rofl:
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: Joyce on September 29, 2014, 09:13:33 PM
My daughter can eat huge amounts, but guess she burns it off running after 2 kids.

I look at food and feel the pounds piling on.  ;D
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: Mrs January on September 29, 2014, 10:01:50 PM
Hi Honeybun

Lovely lady you are so kind to all around you.

Wear what you want to and are comfortable in ...that way you enjoy the night too despite all the hands on stuff you need to achieve

Love and hugs

Mrs January xxxx
Title: Re: What to wear to a little wedding
Post by: karin on September 29, 2014, 10:56:43 PM
Or how about palazzo trousers? Flowy and feminine and when you are at the wedding you can add heels and with a slinky top also- elegant but ultimately its a comfy outfit. Either that or for the wedding add a furry shrug as its november and chunky jewellery, both of which can come off!! But whatever its got to be your choice