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General Discussion => This 'n' That => Topic started by: dulciana on September 12, 2014, 07:08:19 PM

Title: Time to jump through the hoop...........
Post by: dulciana on September 12, 2014, 07:08:19 PM
.......tomorrow!  Absolutely no room for meno moments, including the panics, my concentration flying out the window, brain jumble, tiredness or anything else like that.  Don't want to be put off by the audience in any way, shape, size or form.   They are not enemies!!  I absolutely love all the music that I'm going to play and when I'm cool, calm and collected, I really am looking forward to communicating it.   :)  The lovely dress that I've bought for the occasion still fits (it had better do - I only bought it a few weeks ago!) and if I do get hot ('cos the church heating will be on), I'm going sleeveless.   I've made a pact with myself not to have any wine during the interval - don't think that would help the second half at all  :drunk:  - but watch out for after it's all over!!   My organ teacher has told me to go and enjoy the recital  - and I'm going to.    :great:
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Post by: Joyce on September 12, 2014, 07:13:00 PM
Good luck dulciana! Bet you'll be on here afterwards saying how you had nothing to fret over. Go & enjoy!
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Post by: Ju Ju on September 12, 2014, 07:15:42 PM
Have a wonderful time! Wish I could hear you play! I should be singing with the choir tomorrow, but have opted out as I was getting stressed about having the pain come back and disrupting the proceedings! Not a pain you can gracefully fade into the background with! Let us know how you get on! Ju Ju xx
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Post by: Hurdity on September 12, 2014, 07:17:09 PM
Hope it goes well Dulciana - I'd love to hear you play!

Hurdity x
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Post by: purplenanny on September 12, 2014, 07:33:05 PM
Best of luck. ..relax and enjoy! PN x x
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Post by: dulciana on September 12, 2014, 07:35:35 PM
Cubagirl, Ju Ju, Hurdity and Purplenanny - thanks for your kind words!    :thankyou:
Ju Ju - I'm so sorry to hear that.  Do you think there will be any other concerts soon?  And I wish I could hear you sing!
Cubagirl - I hope so!!
Hurdity - really??  How interesting! When, where, etc? (if you don't mind me asking)
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Post by: Limpy on September 12, 2014, 07:54:39 PM
You've done all the practice now enjoy the music, that's the main thing.
Have fun.
You'll feel so good when you've done it.

 :bighug:

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Post by: bramble on September 12, 2014, 07:55:34 PM
Best of luck. I'm sure it will go well. You have done the hard work - just enjoy!

Bramble
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Post by: babyjane on September 12, 2014, 08:18:21 PM
Hope you enjoy your concert. I used to be a pianist but got so nervous when faced with an exam or concert I used to make silly mistakes and didn't enjoy it.  You sound as though you really enjoy it so I will look forward to hearing how it goes  :)
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Post by: dulciana on September 12, 2014, 08:28:56 PM
Thanks Limpy, Bramble and babyjane.   :thankyou:

A thought - how about starting a "Go for it, meno or not?" thread?   I'd really love to hear about all the amazing things that other ladies have managed to do, despite the meno!   And I'm sure there must be others.........!   :)
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Post by: honeybun on September 12, 2014, 08:35:27 PM
Have an amazing time dulciana.

Let us know how it all goes.


Honeyb
x
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Post by: CLKD on September 12, 2014, 09:11:26 PM
Anticipation is worse than the Event, anticipation is worse than the Event, anticipation is ............

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Post by: babyjane on September 13, 2014, 09:33:31 AM
CLKD I totally agree and that is the nature of my anxiety, what if, what if, what if.............
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Post by: Milamam on September 13, 2014, 10:02:42 AM
You will be absolutely amazing!!!! Best of luck!
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Post by: bramble on September 13, 2014, 10:47:34 AM
Today is the day - best of luck!
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Post by: CLKD on September 13, 2014, 02:40:57 PM
My Mum played the Church organ until she left for College at aged 19.

Even though I know anticipation is worse it doesn't stop those awful gut wrenching feelings  :'( - hopefully the day goes well!
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Post by: dulciana on September 13, 2014, 09:57:55 PM
Hurdity, that's great that your father played for services.  I do, too, every week and love to accompany the hymns - for me, organ-playing is sort of a form of worship in itself.    These recitals are just every now and then, which is why they're so nerve-wracking! 

Thanks CLKD - I agree about the gut-wrenching feelings!  I had to look past them this evening and make myself eat some food before I played, otherwise, I'd not have had the strength to do it.

But I did it!!  And I'm still alive!!  And they seemed to like it!!   Am now enjoying a large glass of wine and being kissed by hubby, who turned all the pages for me.    :-*

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Post by: Galadriel on September 13, 2014, 10:02:04 PM
Woohoo Dulciana  :medal:
Enjoy the wine and hubby. I hope you sleep well tonight :-*

Galadriel x
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Post by: Joyce on September 13, 2014, 10:13:50 PM
Yeah, you go girl! Brilliant, knew you could do it! Well done!
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Post by: honeybun on September 13, 2014, 10:24:54 PM
 :ola: :cancan:





Honeyb
x
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Post by: groundhog on September 13, 2014, 11:40:41 PM
 :parti:
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Post by: Ju Ju on September 14, 2014, 05:41:00 AM
 :clapping:

Well done! I'm so glad it went well. I'm sad to have missed my concert, but I'm sure I'll hear all about it. I'm sure there will be further concerts, as we make a good noise!
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Post by: Limpy on September 14, 2014, 10:04:04 AM
Well Done.

Bet you feel good now.


 :ola: :ola:
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Post by: dulciana on September 14, 2014, 11:35:52 AM
 :thankyou: :thankyou: :thankyou: :thankyou: :thankyou:

Looking forward to a long, lazy afternoon, now!

D.
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Post by: Limpy on September 14, 2014, 01:34:44 PM
Did you have to play for Church this morning?
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Post by: CLKD on September 14, 2014, 05:59:45 PM
 :medal:  did you manage to enjoy it?
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Post by: oldsheep on September 14, 2014, 06:01:21 PM
congratulations! I hope you enjoyed it (sounds like it  :))
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Post by: Hurdity on September 14, 2014, 07:35:30 PM
Well done dulciana!

Hurdity  :)
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Post by: Taz2 on September 14, 2014, 09:15:09 PM
 :congrats: Dulciana

Taz x
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Post by: dulciana on September 15, 2014, 05:36:44 PM
Thank you!!  :thankyou:

Limpy - yes, I did have to play for church yesterday (Sunday).  I was pretty much on automatic pilot the whole time.  Didn't do anything at all in the afternoon, though......... :)