Menopause Matters Forum
General Discussion => This 'n' That => Topic started by: honeybun on August 14, 2014, 12:10:38 PM
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Yet another under investigation for sexual abuse.
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Just heard that on the news :o
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I really hate this. The good memories of my younger days are being eroded by sleaze.
Thought he was religious. :-\
Honeyb
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I feel the same Honeybun, all these figures that we idealised in our earlier days - very sad and quite shocking :o
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I think these people making allegations: true or not : should sit down with the man (usually) involved and talk this through. Watching BBC1 now the journalists seem to be relishing all these stories. Sometimes people who have been abused need to find out why they were targeted and to get a 'sorry'. But once the media are involved ………. :-\
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If the person who is abused is under 16 it's child abuse.
No way I would have thought that you would want to sit opposite your abuser and what's the chances of getting any where near a celebrity.
It's just so sad that it would seem there was a culture of this happening from people who thought they were above the law.
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I really hate this. The good memories of my younger days are being eroded by sleaze.
Thought he was religious. :-\
Honeyb
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So are Priests and as we know not all of them are nice people!
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Do victims get a choice for mediation though? He's over 16 now >:(
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I think there has to be a conviction before there could be any mediation.
I did think that Taz after I had posted. I remember Cliff used to be a Jehovah's witness. My aunt was very proud of that. Bet she is very glad he dropped out years ago. ::)
Honeyb
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Never was keen on him though, I liked Marty Wilde.
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Remember this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaM1R6ICKCw
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Arrr memories....I loved Marty, and that song :-*
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Hang on... Has anyone actually proved he's guilty yet???? Lets not jump to conclusions... (although I never thought Rolf Harris would be, but look how that ended)
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:'( we could easily have bets on who will be next ………… :-\
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Not sure anyone has on here has hinted at that :o
I was never keen on him as a pop star or a teenage crush, not my type ::)
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I truly hope he is as white as the driven snow......but these allegations take the people who adorned bedroom walls and drag them through the gutter.
I was a bit too young to be a Cliff fan but my sister who is 13 years older than me was a huge fan. We shared a bedroom until she got married when I was 9. As a very very young child I remember his poster on "our" bedroom wall.
It's just horrible.
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I lived abroad when all the Cliff and the Beatles were all the rage so never got into them, I do remember listening to Elvis Presley's "Are you lonesome Tonight" and starting to like him about twelve or thirteen then.
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I heard Cliff's name mentioned in this context earlier today and was shocked. I really hope that it comes to nothing but then I hoped the same with Rolf Harris! I am finding it really sad too to have this shadow over personalities from my childhood. Of course, if they are guilty, then it has to happen but i wish they weren't.
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I used to have a poster of him on my bedroom wall too, in my mid teens. Although I've often thought he was gay, I find it hard to believe he would go against his Christian values. But, who knows?
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An MP has raised the question as to who tipped off the Press? Apparently Cliff was un-aware that his property was going to be 'raided' sorry searched ………. there is no further mention that he was 'questioned by Police in Portugal' either so was that made up by the media …….. :-\
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NO Case to Answer :bounce:
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The sad thing for those who are cleared is that the public will still remember they were investigated, so they will always be regarded as tainted even if they were totally innocent. I do feel that famous people should be allowed to remain anonymous, at least until any case comes to trial. Too easy for someone who either hates a celebrity or just wants notoriety to make an accusation & then sit back, knowing that the very fact the person has been accused will be hugely damaging to them.
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One of the accusers is appealing about the case being dropped. The trouble about cases like this is that mud sticks. Sadly when they say there is no case to be answered it could mean they couldn't find evidence or enough evidence. The doubt remains, which is terrible if someone is innocent. Gloria's Huunniford spoke very well on his behalf on the radio.
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Pity that Cilla didn't live long enough to see this.
In the UK someone is innocent until proven guilty. If someone makes incorrect accusations they should be named.
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Pity that Cilla didn't live long enough to see this.
In the UK someone is innocent until proven guilty. If someone makes incorrect accusations they should be named.
The problem in these cases is that if the accuser knew he or she was going to be named if there was insufficient evidence to prove their claim, no one would ever come forward. Abuse victims need tremendous courage to report their abusers, even if they receive maximum support. Which is why I think the accused person should not be named unless they go to trial - if it is a false allegation, no evidence will be found, so no one need ever know about it.
I also think that if the abuser has died, he or she should not be named, because they are no longer in a position to hurt anyone, and all naming them does is cause terrible suffering to the innocent family members who are still alive.
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Good reply! :thankyou: more eloquent than I could put it!
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Should this have been the case with Jimmy Savile though? Sadly there is no black and white answer.
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In Jimmy Saville's case, investigating his actions uncovered systematic abuse by many other people. So yes, it should have been investigated, but investigations don't always have to be made public. The focus should be on minimising suffering and preventing further abuse. If the abuser is still alive, then there is no way of protecting the family because it is more important to ensure that the abuser cannot abuse again. But if he or she is dead, then they are no longer a risk to anyone, so there is no need to cause their family suffering.
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Chris Evans to be interviewed :-\
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No - according to the papers this morning, historical 'abuse' :sigh:
I didn't think that I had type this here I had aimed it in another thread :-\
However: he, Paul Gambaccini and another guy are setting up an Action Group for people wrongfully accused of sexual offences.