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Menopause Discussion => Personal Experiences => Topic started by: lily on September 27, 2016, 10:17:20 PM

Title: Meno weight gain
Post by: lily on September 27, 2016, 10:17:20 PM
Interested to know if anyone not on hrt has gained weight during meno? One of my reasons for not wanting to take hrt was the associated weight gain, but I have put on over a stone in the last year without being on it. Makes me wonder if hrt being blamed unfairly for weight gain when maybe just meno in general that causes it?
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: jgr on September 28, 2016, 05:08:25 AM
Hi Lily, i have been on hrt (patches) for 5years and have put on no weight. I have always been aware of weight gain during this time and although i eat what i want i always have it on a smaller plate (tea plate) and never overdo it with anything bad for you. Works for me so much so that if i get served a meal on a large plate i never finish it. xx
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: Annie0710 on September 28, 2016, 08:58:52 AM
Been in hrt for years with no weight gain, reached post meno and gained 1 stone x
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: clare663 on September 28, 2016, 02:46:32 PM
I gained weight on the tablet form of HRT over 2 stones in 6 months whilst peri but lost most of it. Now im 5 yrs post, put on weight and it doesnt make a difference to my weight either going without HRT or with patches and gels.
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: nothappybun on September 28, 2016, 03:24:25 PM
More than weight gain I experience bloating and water retention which makes me look fuller and also got cravings for sweet stuff! I think it is a question of balancing meals with the right food and trying not to eat between meals.
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: Kathleen on September 28, 2016, 03:39:35 PM
Hello lily.

I am six years post meno, with the last three being on HRT. I haven't gained any weight but I have changed shape and have more of a  belly now but my BMI has actually gone down. I also don't have a spare tyre or large bottom so it seems the belly has taken the biggest hit lol.
My trusty meno book includes a photo of a naked post meno woman to illustrate how our bodies change. I was shocked and appalled when I first saw it but now I don't think she looks too bad. I guess our expectations change along with the rest of us!

Take care all.

K.
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: Hurdity on September 28, 2016, 04:57:29 PM
As others have said - weight gain is likely during peri-menopause and beyond due to changes in metabolism (ie slowing, and loss of muscle mass I understand too) irrespective of whether you take HRT or not. I weigh less now than I did when I was peri-menopausal and before going on HRT - but I've had to work at it. Like others I eat less and different foods and exercise more than I did in the past, to stay slim (ish!). Many women find that progestogens cause permanent bloating - and when I am on the prog phase of my HRT I defo have some sort of bloating or water retention. Therefore this may well become more apparent when on continuous combined HRT - and also the phenomenon ( of bloating and water retention) may differ with the different synthetic progestogens and from woman to woman.

I am lucky that I still have a more or less flat stomach but like Kathleen my shape has changed dramatically as it does with most women - fat disappears from our thighs and butt and goes onto our waist and mid-section. Gone are the small waists of our youth!  I am only a few pounds overweight but it's all round my middle!

Agree with Stellajane - don't let that thought put you off - but make a conscious effort now with your diet and exercise (as well as posture!)

Hurdity x
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: lily on September 28, 2016, 07:05:31 PM
Thanks for the replies ladies. I am heavier than I have ever been and was not prone to putting a lot of weight on - have always stayed much the same give or take half a stone. So detest being this heavy, will need to try to lose it. Hoping to try hrt in January when it will be a year since last period, don't want a monthly bleed.
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: Dana on September 28, 2016, 09:01:31 PM
I've gained weight since being on hrt, but I have to admit it was my fault, not meno or hrt. I have also now lost 20 pounds this year (and still losing) and I'm still meno and still taking hrt. I will bloat a bit when using the progesterone, but that disappears when I stop it.

In most cases weight gain is a choice, just as losing it is.
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: SarahK on October 11, 2016, 04:37:04 PM
I put on 1stone with HRT- :-\ but when I stopped it, it didn't come off. Really depressing, especially when you've got all the flushes etc to cope with..
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: elainediva on October 12, 2016, 06:57:16 PM
me too, i put on 3 stones without hrt
hoping to get back on track soon i think i am at a good place
with my meno at the moment
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: lily on October 12, 2016, 07:41:14 PM
Thanks ladies, sounds like it might just be all we go through during meno that can lead to weight gain and not necessarily the hrt. Good to know.
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: flutterby on October 14, 2016, 12:56:28 PM
I hardly gained an weight during the 16 years I was on HRT, I have been off it 3 weeks and I am monitoring it carefully. I thought I was able to keep my weight down as I was an anxious person. The last couple of months I have been relaxed but no weight gain. I do some exercise but probably not enough, I don't think I overeat.
As my sleep is now becoming more disruptive I am wondering if that might have some effect, as leptin the satiety hormone is dependent on sleep duration. Flutterbyx
Title: Re: Meno weight gain
Post by: Mary1962 on October 18, 2016, 08:58:41 PM
I'm not on HRT and have gradually put on 7-9lbs across the last 18 months.  Partly because foodwise at times I appear to have no off switch so am trying to curtail that a bit and also trying but sometimes failing to keep off the more fattening foods (cakes, biscuits, crisps, puds!) as during menopause I think I'm right in saying we process fats differently.  The fat has definitely headed to the bits they say it does during menopause - ie, stomach! I'm sure healthier eating is the way to deal with it but for me that's still work in progress  :D