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Title: 3 good things
Post by: jedigirl on February 09, 2016, 05:12:06 PM
In a bid to be more positive I would like to tell you 3 things every day that I have been thankful for today and maybe you will share yours;
a delicious batch of pancakes
lovely work mates
coming home to my warm cosy house
jedigirl
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: toffeecushion on February 09, 2016, 05:40:38 PM
I'll share my 3 reasons to be thankful today ....

a lovely cup of tea after a hard days work
a hot bath to soak in
knowing that my husband loves me as much as I love him
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: jedigirl on February 09, 2016, 05:56:57 PM
Fab reasons toffee cushion 😍
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: coldethyl on February 09, 2016, 06:19:02 PM
Being able to sit and enjoy the afternoon in coffee shop with friends
My Mindfulness class
chatting to my first love on FB. We've been friends on and off for years but have found more in common recently as he's developed anxiety and depression so it's been nice to be able to offer support.
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: CLKD on February 09, 2016, 07:38:54 PM
Sunshine
DH
No anxiety
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Ju Ju on February 09, 2016, 08:22:08 PM
Taking my lovely nephew out for lunch before he disappears overseas again.

Chatting to my GS after he had run off with his Mummy's phone and seeing life from a 3year olds perspective!

And DH of course!
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: limpy on February 09, 2016, 08:39:08 PM
In a bid to be more positive I would like to tell you 3 things every day that I have been thankful for today and maybe you will share yours;


It's a lovely thought.
Think it's happened already..................
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/forum/index.php?board=11.0
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: jedigirl on February 09, 2016, 08:42:07 PM
Oh what wonderful posts, so nice to hear the positives ❤️
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: jedigirl on February 10, 2016, 04:54:33 PM
3 things I have enjoyed today ;
A beautiful cold crisp sunny day
Leaving surprise chocolate Malteser bunnies for my work mates to find(they still don't know who it was)😊
My DD making me a huge cup of tea when we got home, without me even asking!!

Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: jedigirl on February 10, 2016, 04:56:25 PM
Sorry Taz didn't see yr thread
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Hurdity on February 10, 2016, 05:38:23 PM
There's another one here - great to see everyone bursting out with positivity at a miserable time of year :)
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/forum/index.php/topic,28063.0.html

For me

Glad I don't live in Syria or other war torn country
Being well fed, warm and healthy
My husband cooking the meal (well he does 4 days out of 7 anyway - but it's still good!!

Hurdity :)
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: coldethyl on February 10, 2016, 06:15:35 PM
Beautiful sunny day
A friend thinking of me when she was house tidying and fetching me some plastic tumblers to use at my party
Sitting chatting about books with this wonderful older lady I appear to have befriended in my local coffee shop
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: coldethyl on February 11, 2016, 09:01:00 PM
Nice surprise for you , Sparkle!

Good MIND counselling session.
Coming home to a big bowl of ragu sauce with salad for dinner. Love it when I get organised enough to pop slow cooker on in morning.
Doing 30 minutes exercise ( albeit in two 15 minute sessions) after months of being too scared to go on treadmill or exercise bike. Having a schedule of exposure stuff that you've committed  to with the CBT therapist is a bit like knowing I've got to see the diabetic nurse - it makes you do stuff out of fear of them so you forget the other fear!!
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: coldethyl on February 12, 2016, 12:11:31 AM
You must be feeling really pleased Coldethyl! 

It was a nice surprise, I almost didn't bother sending off the form! 

S x

I am. And now I've caught up with the last series of Endeavour so that's four good things.
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Ju Ju on February 12, 2016, 06:15:01 AM
It helps having someone to be accountable to other than yourself for some stuff, doesn't it Coldethyl?

I'm grateful for DH, even though I've got up to escape his snoring! He's made me drinks, meals etc while I feel crap and encouraged me not to do anything that I don't feel up to doing.

I'm grateful to my fellow grandmother, who is coming along today to help me look after our grandson, as I'm not feeling too good.

And of course, I'm grateful for my grandchildren, who in my doting opinion are the most wonderful children in the world!  ::)
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: coldethyl on February 12, 2016, 06:28:17 PM
Certainly does.

Dug out a copy of one of the Moomin books for a friend who had read all Tove Jansson's adult stuff but not the Moomins and they like it.
Had a lovely lunch of coronation chicken and salad.
A sneaky dark chocolate covered caramel- don't tell the diabetic nurse!
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Suzi Q on February 18, 2016, 08:13:36 AM
3 things hmmm 730am son rings up tells me he loves me
5 mins later grandsons  been given the phone to say Nana with the inflection  peps gaga door soon xxxx
3 hubbie  rings from over a 1000klm away saying love you back tomorrow 
Thats my 3
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: CLKD on August 17, 2017, 06:53:22 AM
Yep - tnx Taz
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: CLKD on August 17, 2017, 06:55:25 AM
Himself managed to burn the toast but not the house  :o
Small raindrops on the apples in our garden
Blackbird 'asking' for meal worms  ;)
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Scampi on August 17, 2017, 07:01:44 AM
That wonderful 'after the rain' smell
Barista nailed my coffee this morning!
I'm 4 stones lighter than I was this time last year!
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: DaisyB on August 17, 2017, 12:21:14 PM
My dogs curled up beside me
Sunshine when it forecast more rain
My granddaughter coming to sleep over :)
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Hurdity on August 17, 2017, 12:47:31 PM
Lovely warm sunny morning
Heard the Yaffle (see wildlife thread)
Can't think of another one....
I'm alive and well ?  ::)

Hurdity x
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Annie0710 on August 17, 2017, 12:50:53 PM
Woke up still breathing

Saw my 3 lovely grandchildren this morning

Looking forward to meeting #4 early next year

Grateful that I'm feeling better

Looking forward to moving/married/honeymoon all in the space of 2 weeks !

Realise I'm greedy in choosing 5 things
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Ju Ju on August 17, 2017, 01:30:26 PM
Yeh! Annie!  :congrats:

Need any virtual bridesmaids? I'm sure I can find a virtual bridesmaid dress!
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Annie0710 on August 17, 2017, 03:31:04 PM
Yes you're very welcome Juju! Very laid back affair just the 2 of us but with all the trimmings, dress, suit, flowers, vintage car,videographer and photographer and whilst we were at it we booked the bagpiper lol x
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Ju Ju on August 17, 2017, 05:43:39 PM
Sounds wonderful!
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: DaisyB on August 18, 2017, 08:08:50 AM
Annie sounds lovely xx best wishes for the big day xx
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Annie0710 on August 18, 2017, 01:00:11 PM
Thanks Daisy ! X
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: CLKD on August 18, 2017, 02:39:32 PM
Well done Scampi  :foryou:

woke feeling rested
been out and about without anxiety
found a 'new' Garden Centre  ;D
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: DaisyB on August 18, 2017, 08:11:07 PM
That wonderful 'after the rain' smell
Barista nailed my coffee this morning!
I'm 4 stones lighter than I was this time last year!
well done to you - thats some willpower !! Xx
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Two hoots on August 20, 2017, 04:42:12 PM
It's Mr Hoots birthday
We are staying in a vineyard tonight
Going to our favourite Italian restaurant later
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: DaisyB on August 20, 2017, 05:28:13 PM
TH - that sounds wonderful  :cake: have a good night x
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: CLKD on August 20, 2017, 05:41:56 PM
Do you get to buy a vine for 12 months?  Will you have sleeping bags that are down to -40C  ;D - look out for mice ;-)

Happy Birthday Mr Hoots  :cupcake:
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: Two hoots on August 21, 2017, 12:51:01 PM
Lovely cosy night in a huge bed  ;D if you want a nice place to stay near Cardiff I would recommend it. Unfortunately we didn't have time to do the vineyard tour so we are planning a return stay including a tour.
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: babyjane on August 21, 2017, 02:13:29 PM
3 good things DS1, DS2 DD  :)  Also DGD1, DGD2, DGS  :)
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: CLKD on August 21, 2017, 03:03:14 PM
Not BJ, DH, Dear Dog  ;D
Title: Re: 3 good things
Post by: DaisyB on August 21, 2017, 04:49:33 PM
Ah BJ - how lovely xx