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Menopause Discussion => Alternative Therapies => Topic started by: Denise R on May 28, 2018, 07:12:43 AM

Title: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Denise R on May 28, 2018, 07:12:43 AM
I suffer from extreme fatigue.  Some days I am fine but others it just hits me out of the blue.  I am unable to take HRT so I wonder if anyone out there could recommend a natural alternative?  Thank you. 
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 28, 2018, 09:38:32 AM
Crashing fatigue.  I remember my Mum suddenly sitting down and dropping off to sleep, I wasn't told why so thought that she was really ill  :-\. I have had it sometimes when I was menstruating.

Lots of ladies are unable to take HRT but it is worth while reading the treatment section above.  Some GPs are reluctant to prescribe so suggest that ladies shouldn't take HRT but without explaining why!

Quality of Life is important.  Keep hydrated.  Rest when your body insists.
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: prestige on May 28, 2018, 11:18:47 AM
Hi DeniseR

I too suffer from fatigue. I can be fine and then out of the blue the fatigue hits me.

Apart from trying to follow a healthy diet. I have not found a solution. I too am not on hrt.

So I will be watching this thread with interest ;D

Best

P
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Denise R on May 28, 2018, 12:12:49 PM
Thank you both for replying. It's  great to get other ladies thoughts.  My Gp won't prescribe HRT because of a family history of breast cancer.  Although I would prefer to get through the menopause without it. 
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Dancinggirl on May 28, 2018, 12:19:07 PM
I assume you have been tested for thyroid function and all other possible deficiencies?  eg iron, B12, Vitamin D etc?
If you have chronic fatigue then your GP should refer to for some of the therapies that can help.
A good Diet and exercise regime with  relaxation techniques and some targeted supplements may help so ask your GP where you could get advice about all this. DG x
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: prestige on May 28, 2018, 01:48:32 PM
Hi DG
Thanks for replying. Yes, I have been tested and everything has come back normal.

I can't speak for Denise R, but my fatigue is very variable, so I would guess it is a hormone inbalace that is the culprit.

My GP is useless, and just tries to push me down thr AD route.

I do suffer from other menopause ailments like brain fog, adrenaline rushes during the night. I can't cope with stress as I used to. I can be very tearful for no reson at all :'( :' and so many other things....
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: dangermouse on May 28, 2018, 01:52:34 PM
The fatigue is very common, possibly similar to early pregnancy fatigue.
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 28, 2018, 02:48:16 PM
Change your GP?

This info is out of date.  Menopause is natural.  But some symptoms are so severe that they can cause great upset.  Hormonal Replacement Therapy does what it says on the tin  ;).  Why suffer if there is treatment available, after all, it doesn't have to be for ever and believe me, if vaginal atrophy strikes, you will probably soon change your mind!
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Denise R on May 28, 2018, 03:02:25 PM
I have had a full blood check done and everything else is ok.  I have suffered badly with concentration and memory problems to the point I thought I had dementia, however my gp assured me that things would get better eventually and I'm happy to say that they have. The fatigue though has worsened recently and is really getting me down. 
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 28, 2018, 03:03:47 PM
Do you have a regular job etc.? R U able to take time out for a few months so that you can sit when necessary?
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Denise R on May 28, 2018, 03:09:58 PM
CLKD

I work in admin part time and look after my 2 grandchildren 1-2 days a week but at times I feel 90 instead of 60.  My mum who is 86 has more energy than me (when I don't have the fatigue).   My gp is very good and I don't want to change.  I am on Vagifem pessaries for atrophy but not full HRT and they help with other problems. 
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 28, 2018, 03:15:14 PM
They will help with localised dryness and itching in the outer labia but are unlikely to ease any other symptoms.  I find ovestin really really stops that 'razor blade up there'  :D feeling  ::)

Do you feel that your GP is supportive?  Mine has been good over the years. 

If you are running after Grandchildren no wonder you suddenly flop!  How is your diet on the days that you care for them? 
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Denise R on May 28, 2018, 03:31:15 PM
I really can't blame it on minding the children because it comes on me so randomly.  There really is no pattern to it at all.  My gp is supportive and she is very understanding.  My diet some days isn't  very good so I know I need to take a good look at that. 
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 28, 2018, 03:32:31 PM
I remember that sudden need to sleep so well.  It was at some point of my cycle but can't remember where .........
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Hurdity on May 29, 2018, 09:30:39 AM
Sorry to hear about your fatigue Denise R and that you can't take HRT due to breast cancer in the family (CLKD "HRT does what it says on the tin.Why suffer if there is treatment available"  she said this earlier about the BC - hence her posts).

I presume your familial breast cancer is in close relatives who had the disease quite young? There are also different types of breast cancer so if it wasn't oestrogen receptive I think HRT may be possible? You might also be able to have genetic testing if very close relatives have had it - there are guidelines on this so that you can discuss your relative risk of getting the disease as well.

If blood tests do not show anything amiss re fatigue then it could well be hormonal, but unfortunately the prescription treatments for menopausal symptoms are mainly for treating flushes and sweats rather than fatigue - ie some types of anti-depressants.

The only things I can suggest apart from HRT is eating a healthy diet to make sure you are not deficient in anything, cutting down on caffeine and alcohol and getting out in the fresh air and lots of sunshine and getting as much exercise as you feel able to do - I know this is probably difficult if you are feeling fatigued. Sometimes blood tests show within normal range but actually the patient is experiencing symptoms - so iron, vitamin B ?12, thyroid function etc - may look fine but perhaps you need a boost? Lots of fruit and veg and fresh food - not processed! Maybe a gentle iron tonic like Floradix liquid every few days to boost your iron?

Hope this helps and you eventually become less fatigued.

Hurdity x
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 29, 2018, 01:57:13 PM
Take it easy, listen to your body.  Teresa you've been through a HUGE upheaval. 

I was very tired 12 months ago due to low VitD levels.  I would garden for 20 mins. then have to sit for 2 hours, absolutely still.  Scarey!

My Mum had a mastectomy at aged 65 but it was a different type of cancer to the one I had years later.
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Denise R on May 29, 2018, 07:08:29 PM
Thank you Hurdity for your very helpful comments and advice.  I will try the Floridix and see if that helps.
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Conolly on May 29, 2018, 09:09:01 PM
Hello Denise R,

I have been suffering from extreme fatigue since perimenopause began, but now that I'm one year post-menopause (theoretically speaking this is still perimenopause) it's not as bad.

I think the disturbed sleep (caused by hot flushes and anxiety) is the main culprit. As long as you can control those to some extent you will be feeling a bit better. Another important factor is muscle fatigue. We tend to keep doing the same things as we used to do before menopause and we just don't have the same muscle flexibility and strength so we have to take it easy on house chores and high impact exercices, at least until you can adhere to a physical workout routine (which many of us don't). Meanwhile, hang in there and keep smiling, it truly helps.

Conolly X
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Wilks on May 30, 2018, 06:24:17 AM
I've been recommended by my doctor to take a coenzyme Q10 supplement or B vitamins.
To be honest, they didn't do much for the loss of energy I suffered with last autumn/winter and I was so miserable too. In January, I started taking fluoxetine. It's really helped me. I know antidepressants aren't for everyone but life is for living, not sitting around feeling like shit for months on end! I also started testosterone 2 months ago which also now seems to be helping with my energy.
The extra energy means I can do more exercise which is beneficial for mind and body  :)
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Daisydot on May 30, 2018, 08:14:36 AM
Don't try the b12 patches Wilks they must be too strong or something I've had a terrible tummy pain all night and trots.ill stick to the oral spray now I'd no trouble with that.x
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Conolly on May 30, 2018, 05:31:09 PM
I take B12 and D3. Levels are high. No difference regarding fatigue.


Conolly X
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Denise R on May 31, 2018, 03:09:48 PM
Thank you all so much for your suggestions.  Everyone has been so helpful and I always feel that talking is therapy. It's just great to get things off your chest snd talk to people in the same situation. 
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 31, 2018, 05:21:47 PM
Vit B12 etc. should be taken with medical advice, not over the counter.  Vit B12 must not be taken with some anti-depressants!!
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Conolly on May 31, 2018, 05:37:36 PM
Hello CLKD,


Of course. Mine are under prescription, menopausal vegetarian.


I didn't know about the ADs interaction though. Which ones specifically?


Conolly X
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 31, 2018, 06:23:38 PM
Old anti-depressant medications and VitB12 can be fatal.  Also, some old ADs interact with cheese, Bovril, Marmite, broad beans, bananas ........
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Conolly on May 31, 2018, 06:32:03 PM
Thank you, CLKD. Which ones are considered ‘old'?

Conolly X
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Wilks on May 31, 2018, 08:53:20 PM
Monoamine oxidase inhibitors (such as tranylcypromine) are the antidepressants that you need to be careful with regard to interactions, but they are quite infrequently prescribed these days.
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: CLKD on May 31, 2018, 09:31:07 PM
Tnx.  Glad I'm not taking *that* down in shorthand  :lol:
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: Wilks on June 01, 2018, 06:51:06 AM
Lol, I thought I was at work for a moment!
Title: Re: Extreme fatigue
Post by: slayer on June 01, 2018, 11:07:12 AM
I suffer from fatigue, not sure what to do for it has i have another condition that can also cause fatigue. feel like i'm going through puberty again....