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When will it end

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Re: Advice please
« Reply #15 on: April 04, 2024, 06:34:31 PM »

The vapours? What was that ???
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« Reply #16 on: April 04, 2024, 06:36:04 PM »

Sudden hot flushes probably, coming over all faint ...... for which smelling salts were offered.  Crikey that dates me  ;D
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Re: Advice please
« Reply #17 on: April 04, 2024, 06:49:51 PM »

Oh god no,I'm so sorry...I genuinely havnt heard of that before.   :-\ would you mind if I asked what stage your at? I have no clue how this works..do I stay on hrt until its presumed I've reach menapause age..what age is that? For a woman I really have no idea what the hell happens nxt ;D
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« Reply #18 on: April 04, 2024, 06:59:21 PM »

U stay on HRT for as long as you require it.  Years ago we were advised to stop all treatments at I think it was 60, but if a regime works, why stop? Many women continue with treatment for ever.  The way to find out if 1 is 'out the other side' is to stop HRT, however, if symptoms return ........ once a regime is found to suit, many keep on it.

I have been lucky.  Throughout my menstruating years I had heavy, clotty, excruciating periods.  Once peri-menopause began: The Change: I knew that periods would lessen and mine certainly waxed and waned.  I was aware that women experienced hot flushes, however: any of the other symptoms were never mentioned .  Especially anxiety and vaginal atrophy.

Some find that keeping a mood/food/symptom diary useful.  It's natural though can throw up lots of symptoms - ask away.
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« Reply #19 on: April 04, 2024, 07:12:31 PM »

...or accused of witchcraft, when all they were probably doing was desperately trying to mash some herbs up to help  :'(
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Re: Advice please
« Reply #20 on: April 04, 2024, 07:18:40 PM »

CLKD thankyou. I know I probably sound ridiculous but I have never been so lost. I've read posts on this forum for a lo.g time now and the advice is invaluable.  It took me a while to pluck up the courage to join and now I'm so glad I did :) thankyou for supporting all us newbies who are trying to navigate our way through this,I really can't tell you how much it means x
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« Reply #21 on: April 05, 2024, 08:27:28 AM »

I think many ladies begin to feel lost.  Some of course will be raising teens/babies, and/or caring for elderly neighbours or relatives which all adds to the 'not enough me time'.

Do U have hobbies?
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« Reply #22 on: April 05, 2024, 11:17:01 AM »

Hello CLKD :)

Sorry just heading home from work. So hobbies...I love my garden,the weather isn't permitting at moment and found out in November I have herniated disk so had to ease up on things for a while :( I try and potter as much as I can and I'm just back at work so progress. I try and stay positive as many people in worse positions ,what else can we do :-\ x
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« Reply #23 on: April 05, 2024, 12:05:00 PM »

Others are in different situations: we could go on all day about that across the World.  This Forum is for us ;-).

I love gardening too, we have a thread somewhere.
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« Reply #24 on: April 05, 2024, 12:46:42 PM »

Oh that's good to know :) my hobby this weekend is to create a fairy garden. If nothing else it will keep me occupied  :)
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« Reply #25 on: April 05, 2024, 03:51:38 PM »

With small doors etc.?

Mum used to tell me that others were worse off, still makes me  :cuss: :bang:   ❗️ ‼️ ........
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« Reply #26 on: April 05, 2024, 05:39:41 PM »

Yes little fairy door,little lights etc. I,ll post a picture if I can when I get finishef  :) going by the weather here it's looking more unlikely this weekend! I'm in dumbarton Scotland, where are you? I tell myself there's worse than me but in the midst of an awful period I do feel like I'm the only one..total self pity mode initiated   ;D
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« Reply #27 on: April 05, 2024, 05:48:14 PM »

We are entitled to a Pity Party occasionally  ;D

Snow expected up North then?  Down here in the Midlands, warmer weather with gales 4cast  ::)
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« Reply #28 on: April 05, 2024, 06:17:13 PM »

We have rubbish weather all the time,they forecast these storms and ots like oh well more rubbish weather ;D nothing new up here! I do enjoy having a shuffle in the rain though,my husband thinks I'm insane. Always enjoyed being out in the elements :). It's so nice talking here, what a difference ot has made. X
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« Reply #29 on: April 05, 2024, 06:21:15 PM »

That's good.  We talk about most things: including peri-and menopause  :D
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