Hi Chuckers,
I don't know if this will help at all, but I'm on the waiting list for a total hysterectomy/oopherectomy for severe PMDD and peri-meno symptoms. I'm 47 and have taken HRT for 6 years (I resisted for most of my late 30s, trying nutrition/exercise etc), though my periods/cycle have been the bane of my life since I started at age 11... I'll spare you the details because if you've suffered PMDD you know EXACTLY how it is!
I'm just about to start up again with zoladex - I was on it for a year with add-back Elleste Solo and a Mirena , and came off a year ago, though over the past 6 months the nightmare has kicked in again. The Mirena sorted the heavy bleeding, the Elleste the menopausal stuff, but neither sorted the PMDD – I'm having my 3rd mammogram in 5 years for a hormonal breast mass this week.
While in chemical menopause, it took a while to get the balance right, but when it was right it was wonderful. I was sane and 'normal'! Over the years I tried varying oestrogen stuff, and it really does take some fine tuning - getting the right type and the right dosage. I have felt ill, mad and many other things on the wrong type/dose, and my GP (though lovely) was hopeless, sadly. I think you need to see a gynae, as that's the only thing that changed it all for me. My GP just kept trying different things, but the gynae just knew so much more. I paid to see him privately (could only afford it once, he very kindly then put me on his NHS list) as was so desperate with the last hormonal mass and all the symptoms, that's what the breast consultant suggested.
I'm curious about your hysterectomy, too, as I'm mildly (understatement and a half) terrified of the op!!! Sorry if I've waffled on, but I hope in some small way it helps. xxx